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I have commit horrible sins. Please help me

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Topic: I have commit horrible sins. Please help me
Posted By: ousmane123
Subject: I have commit horrible sins. Please help me
Date Posted: 27 August 2013 at 10:40pm
I'm going to be honest. I haven't made salat for 6 years. I masturbate and watch porn and sext. I'm 13 and have pubic hair. I need help badly. I don't want to go to hell. Please help me. I'm so ashamed and scared. I would do almost no anything to start making salat and stop masturbating and watching porn..



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Posted By: semar
Date Posted: 28 August 2013 at 10:08pm
Salam,
 
Stop that bad activities, start perfom salat and other good deed, ask forgiveness to Allah. That's all, he is the most forgiver.


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Salam/Peace,
Semar
The Prophet said: "Do not eat before you are hungry, and stop eating before you are full"
"1/3 of your stomach for food 1/3 for water, 1/3 for air"


Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 29 August 2013 at 8:34am
I see you live in the United States, and would assume there is a Masjid near your home. Start visiting and make salat with others. Making salat has just become mandatory for you given your age, so don't be concerned with 6 years ago. Porn is an addiction, however at your young age if you begin to place limits on your internet use and find other activities such as sports, this will help you gain control over viewing pornography. Masturbation is nothing to be ashamed of and isn't sinful (in my opinion), however if this troubles you; fasting is a good way to control sexual urge and desires. Lastly, welcome to Islamicity!


Posted By: Al Jin
Date Posted: 30 August 2013 at 12:23am
It seems as thought you may be suffering from a sexual addiction. As with all addictions, the basic rule to follow is the "H A L T" rule. Never let yourself get too Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired. It will help you manage your compulsions.

Secondly, seek a means of dealing with stress other than with sexual gratification. Find passages in the Quran that have the greatest meaning for you, and meditate on them. Do your best to relax, and listen for Allah. He is always with us, and he is just as concerned about you as you are.

You will be fine. Every young man goes through what you are going through. In this day and age, it is even more of a difficult path because of the inundation of pornography on the web. Take a vacation from your Iphone, or internet device for a while, or restrict your your use of it. You will find you have a real life that is infinitely more meaningful than the virtual one, and it is the life that Allah has given you. Your destiny has been determined by him in advance, and you are safe in his hands. Everything will be alright.

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If you walk to Allah, he will run to you.


Posted By: ousmane123
Date Posted: 02 September 2013 at 4:51pm
Thanks guys



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