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Topic: Looking for good friends
Posted By: Lost soul
Subject: Looking for good friends
Date Posted: 19 May 2012 at 4:56pm
Assalamualaikum gurls... Em asian muslim gurl , i want my islamic sisters as i m totally nill in having friends ... I like to guide all tat confused my non muslim sisters who r having any problems abt islam ... I am always ready to help those who wants to kno islam , giv me a warm welcum plezzz :)



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Posted By: peacemaker
Date Posted: 20 May 2012 at 6:37pm
Walaikum Salam,

Sister, welcome to the forum! May Allah (SWT) guide us all.

Peace

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Then which of the favours of your Lord will ye deny?
Qur'an 55:13


Posted By: danieldemol
Date Posted: 15 July 2012 at 10:52pm
Walaikum Salam sister, welcome to the forum.


Posted By: Waliya
Date Posted: 06 October 2012 at 9:31am
Walaikum Salaam Queen Sister,
Nice to meet you. My name is Waliya A
Imani Rassi Aziz.
I have only been apart if Islam since December 3rd, 2011.
The man who was enlightening me had no idea really what he was doing, cause he did not know how to teach me. He had no idea what he was saying in Arabic when it came to his prayers. I am lost and confused by the men in Islam cause they start something and leave without finishing. So here I am nad I am confused. How we broke up shock my faith in Islam cause what is going on is wrong!!!!! Why would Allah allow that (without truly asking Allah of course) to happen?


Posted By: Lost soul
Date Posted: 09 October 2012 at 5:27am
waliya, my dear sister, u dnt really need to worry abt anythng.. u told that':
How we broke up shock my faith in Islam cause what is going on is wrong!!!!!
em not getting yr point, pplez explain me so i wil help u...


Posted By: Waliya
Date Posted: 09 October 2012 at 7:21am
As Salaam Alaikum,
So much has happened. I chose Islam, cause of all the information that was hidden in the Bible was revealed to me by my Muslim Brother, but after talking as friends for two years and realizing his love for Allah, I easily surrended to him and became his fiancee, but he was constanly contradicting what he stood for. He always feel he is right and I did not know what I was talking about, and would not apologize when he was found wrong, he gossiped, he did so much that he was not supposed to do, that it made it extremly hard for me to be submissive to him, it made me feel very bitter in the end cause, I know he wished bad on me cause he has done it to others right in front of me, and is very vengeful. I could not believe what I was seeing.I know it can't really be like this. I am so bitter with this whole ordeal, I am unable to pray. How do you stay in a relationship, knowing what the person is doing is wrong? Am I now suppose stay in that or show him the proper way to go? Or am I to share his fate, cause as a Muslimah, we should be able to discuss this and grow. But he feels he is not doing anything wrong. He is very beguiling and knows how to make it seem like it is that persons fault. I am so tired of all of this. How can I stay in a faith that the men do not look at thier females as equals? We have to totally cover ourselves, stay out of thier conversation...etc.


Posted By: Lost soul
Date Posted: 12 October 2012 at 9:57am
i hav a solution fr u my dear sister... after doinng wazoo, turn on the any page of quran with closse eyes..then read its tranlation,  blv me ther is a solution  of yr problem by almighty ALLAHSmile ANd b4 sleeping pray 2 rakat salat ul hajat, and pray to Allah to giv u rite decision power and sleep.. in the morning wt yr heart says,lets act upon it...


Posted By: thomaslee
Date Posted: 29 October 2012 at 6:49pm
Lost Soul you are now found ! WelcomeCool


Posted By: Chrysalis
Date Posted: 30 October 2012 at 7:13am
Welcome Lost Soul! Hope to see you around on the forums :)

Waliya: Your story is very unfortunate. May God ease your troubles. We should believe in God and Religion for the right reasons, not for anybody else. This is surely a trial for you, and your faith can help you through it. We are here for you.


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"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."


Posted By: Idil
Date Posted: 31 October 2012 at 3:24pm
Wacalykum Salaam sis,

Welcome to the forum and it is great to hear that you are reaching out to your muslims sister. As one of your sister, I would love to connect with you. Will send you a private message so check it out.



Posted By: Waliya
Date Posted: 01 November 2012 at 4:23am
I never desided Islam for him. I joined solely for me myself! I never thought I would go through such treachery in my life. I thought him being Muslim would be different, but I see he was not, and Allah made me c that he may have blessings, but because of the things he does to others, that they will not come to him cause the women that Allah blesses him with he lies and treats them with disrespect once they realize what he is about.


Posted By: Waliya
Date Posted: 01 November 2012 at 4:51am
I know no one is perfect my sisters, but this man has had so much bad luck and misfortuned that I could not understand why. He is a very intelligent man, I can not take that from him, but in some ways he is dumb to what Allah stands for. How can you teach what you yourself does not practice. You must be honest when people request honesty. Iand was told lies to keep me at bay for what ever game he was playing.
What shoke everything is what he began doing as if it were my fault, placing blame on me, telling
me I needed to seek counciling, and all kinds of stuff. My head is a mess right now and I am unable to think clearly, I am unable to pray, cause I found myself angry, and wanting vengence, cause he was pkaying games. I told him be honest with me cause it is simple, I do not want to be around someone whi does nit want me. Ivdo nit want ti be giving you any of my money csuse I have children to take care of who do not smoke cigerettes like him, and who has anither woman giving you money who you used to be in a relationship with, and was still spending time with while we were engaged. He felt I wad rushing him into marriage and I told him that an engagement is only for 6 months, and if you are not moving into that direction, then he is not going to marry you. He always felt he was right and that I did not know what I was talking about, but never apologized when he was proven wrong.   That is why I am unable to pray, I am to upset behind all of this.



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