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Topic: The private issues ONLY on the sisters' f
Posted By: Full of Hopes
Subject: The private issues ONLY on the sisters' f
Date Posted: 06 December 2009 at 7:45pm


 Asslamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatu Allah


  Dear sisters,

 This is so important. The administrator of this blessed forum made for us a private forum. This forum is amazing cause it is hidden and will appear just if you sign in as a female. Even in case a man got in there by any way, we have the right to inform the administrator, he told us this on the forum.

 So just focus on the title of the forum sisters only, then you see under it a sub title with the name: sub title forum,  sisters' ONLY forum.

 I hope all sisters use this for the private issues that male members should not see at all. This is for our privacy as females and may Allah reward them for doing this for us.

 Peace.

 


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And whoever seeks a religion other than Islâm, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)



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Posted By: seekshidayath
Date Posted: 07 December 2009 at 8:32am
Walaikum Salam wa rahmatullah,

Am so glad, alhamdullilah.

May we use this forum in the best way possible, insha Allah.

Ameen

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Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."


Posted By: Chrysalis
Date Posted: 13 December 2009 at 11:46am
BTW I cannot see any "sub forum" called Sister's Only... :S why is that ? 

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"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."


Posted By: martha
Date Posted: 13 December 2009 at 1:49pm
Originally posted by Chrysalis

BTW I cannot see any "sub forum" called Sister's Only... :S why is that ? 


Hmm...me neither :(

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some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set


Posted By: Pati
Date Posted: 13 December 2009 at 2:04pm
Originally posted by martha

Originally posted by Chrysalis

BTW I cannot see any "sub forum" called Sister's Only... :S why is that ? 


Hmm...me neither :(


Nor do I...

Please, Full of Hopes, we need more information about your advertisement!! Or is that forum so much hidden that we have to look for it? Maybe it's a game!! LOL

Kind regards girls
Patricia


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No God wants the killing, but the peace.
The weapons are carried by people, not by religions.


Posted By: Chrysalis
Date Posted: 13 December 2009 at 2:16pm
Originally posted by Pati

Originally posted by martha

Originally posted by Chrysalis

BTW I cannot see any "sub forum" called Sister's Only... :S why is that ? 


Hmm...me neither :(


Nor do I...

Please, Full of Hopes, we need more information about your advertisement!! Or is that forum so much hidden that we have to look for it? Maybe it's a game!! LOL

Kind regards girls
Patricia


Maybe our sense of direction is just as bad as our driving skills Patti Wink


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"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."


Posted By: Full of Hopes
Date Posted: 14 December 2009 at 6:03am

  OMG!! again sister Chrysalis, you make me laugh. I am running away from my studying and homework just to see YOU..

 Listen, inform the administer  by a PM to Icforumadmin. Tell him you do not see it. Because he said that on the private  forum. He said that might be some who do not see it, so they should tell him and he accesses you to it.. OK!

 Hey Hi Pati, nice to see YOU..
Wink




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And whoever seeks a religion other than Islâm, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)


Posted By: Chrysalis
Date Posted: 14 December 2009 at 6:40am
Originally posted by Full of Hopes


  OMG!! again sister Chrysalis, you make me laugh. I am running away from my studying and homework just to see YOU..

 Listen, inform the administer  by a PM to Icforumadmin. Tell him you do not see it. Because he said that on the private  forum. He said that might be some who do not see it, so they should tell him and he accesses you to it.. OK!

 



Lol ! I am flattered Sis - but don't make me an excuse to run away from your studies !  Big%20smile If that is so, then I shall have to end my posts with a warning (PS : F.O.H Please stop reading this and go Study ! ) Wink

JazakAllah for that advise, I shall PM the admin today. Smile





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"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."


Posted By: Full of Hopes
Date Posted: 14 December 2009 at 9:11am
 

  
   OMG!!! sister Chrysalis.. How did you know?Confused Yes I am looking for an excuse to run away from studying!! May Allah forgive us.. http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNman000">Hmm

 BUT I also pass by here to see YOU, then I say let me sign in and reply,, then I http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNman000">Confused




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And whoever seeks a religion other than Islâm, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)


Posted By: Pati
Date Posted: 14 December 2009 at 12:39pm
Originally posted by Chrysalis

Originally posted by Pati

Originally posted by martha

Originally posted by Chrysalis

BTW I cannot see any "sub forum" called Sister's Only... :S why is that ? 


Hmm...me neither :(


Nor do I...

Please, Full of Hopes, we need more information about your advertisement!! Or is that forum so much hidden that we have to look for it? Maybe it's a game!! LOL

Kind regards girls
Patricia


Maybe our sense of direction is just as bad as our driving skills Patti Wink


Hahaha... please, don't tell me that!!! I am suposed to be an expert in making maps and finding hidden places!!! LOL But... actually... the only thing I can find in easy way is a bakery!!! And it's not worthy because I don't follow anything but my nose so....

I will try to get that Femenineforum.... it should be very interesting to share thoughts there (I just feel sorry for the curious men who cannot access there... Embarrassed ).

Full of Hopes,

I wish I could say "nice to see you"... but.... GO AND STUDY!!! Lazzzzzzzzzyyyyy Tongue

Well, I understand you perfectly. I am supposed to be studying for my master right now... but see... hahaha... I have to put a studying plan in my life!!! LOL

Kind regards ladies
Patricia


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No God wants the killing, but the peace.
The weapons are carried by people, not by religions.


Posted By: Chrysalis
Date Posted: 14 December 2009 at 1:29pm
Originally posted by Pati




Maybe our sense of direction is just as bad as our driving skills Patti Wink
[/QUOTE]

Hahaha... please, don't tell me that!!! I am suposed to be an expert in making maps and finding hidden places!!! LOL But... actually... the only thing I can find in easy way is a bakery!!! And it's not worthy because I don't follow anything but my nose so.... [/Quote]

Big%20smile

Then I speak for myself only. . . my driving skills + sense of direction is deplorable. Tongue


Full of Hopes,

Well, I understand you perfectly. I am supposed to be studying for my master right now... but see... hahaha... I have to put a studying plan in my life!!! LOL


Lol ! I think we need a Procrastinator's section too - along with a private sister's forum. Perhaps we should get you and sis Hopes banned from the forum until your exams ! for your own good. Wink

Cheers!




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"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."


Posted By: jr235
Date Posted: 16 December 2009 at 11:49pm
Hello,

I'm new to the boards, and can't access the private issues only page. Honestly, its why I joined the boards. I feel more comfortable discussing things with other women. =)

When I tried to PM a mod I got a message saying that I don't have sufficient privileges to access the page. Do I need a certain number of posts? I understand that to be able to see a private forum, but to PM a mod?

Thanks!


Posted By: Full of Hopes
Date Posted: 17 December 2009 at 9:15pm

 Hi.. Jr235,,

hey! you got in there,very good.. Smile

 nice to see you.. stay with us please,,
Heart



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And whoever seeks a religion other than Islâm, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)


Posted By: wisdomseeker
Date Posted: 25 December 2009 at 3:41am
Hi Jr235,

yes privileges are restricted for starters, that includes sending PMs too, u need to turn a newbie to do that, that is 20 posts.

take care.


Posted By: islamic_talibah
Date Posted: 29 December 2009 at 9:52am
Salam...
 
nice going there ladiez!!!Haaaaan!!!
 
lug gaey na seedhey raastey....lgey raho.....hahaha....
(not every1 but i guess sum of u r gonna understand it...)
 
Chrysalis!!!m luking at u!!!Wink


Posted By: UmmFatima
Date Posted: 28 February 2010 at 4:49pm
Thanks for starting a women's forum!


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“Our Lord! Grant us comfort in our spouses and descendants, and make us leaders of the God-fearing.” -Al-Furqan 74


Posted By: Full of Hopes
Date Posted: 04 March 2010 at 7:12am
 
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
اللهم صلي على نبينا محمد و على آله و صحبه و سلم
 
 Asslamu Alaikum Wa Rahmtu Allah
 
 Welocme to the forum sister UmmFatimah, we are so gald to see you and hope that we become soooo close sisters, in sha Allah..Heart
 
 

 



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And whoever seeks a religion other than Islâm, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)


Posted By: UmmFatima
Date Posted: 04 March 2010 at 2:28pm
InshaAllah, it's so good to be able to communicate with Muslim sisters... I'm in a place with nooooo Muslims in it and it's sooooo damaging to my iman... I'm stuck listening to lectures on my computer again and again...

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“Our Lord! Grant us comfort in our spouses and descendants, and make us leaders of the God-fearing.” -Al-Furqan 74


Posted By: UmmFatima
Date Posted: 13 March 2010 at 7:48am
salaams

I'm classified as a "groupie" now - and "female Islam" - but they still won't let me into the women's forum! Why is this?


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“Our Lord! Grant us comfort in our spouses and descendants, and make us leaders of the God-fearing.” -Al-Furqan 74


Posted By: Lameese
Date Posted: 10 April 2010 at 10:20am
I have not been here in so long, I wonder if I am considered a "newbie" again :)

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You Shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another and let it be a moving sea between the the shores of your soul


Posted By: seeja
Date Posted: 28 October 2010 at 7:44pm
My name is seeja yousuf. I am from India. New to the forum. I would like to know how I can join the Sisters Only Form.


Posted By: natalie
Date Posted: 16 March 2011 at 7:18am
Only just joined this forum today and have just realised why i can't access the private sum-forum! oh well . . .

20 messages here we come!!! lol

hope to see you all in there!



Posted By: Rashaa
Date Posted: 12 May 2011 at 9:36am
Assalamu Aleykoum,
 
I am new to the system as well, and want to say that I am happy to have found the forum.
 
Any members in Canada, or from Egypt?


Posted By: semar
Date Posted: 13 May 2011 at 7:20pm

Salam,

Welcome Rashaa, hope you enjoy your stay.


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Salam/Peace,
Semar
The Prophet said: "Do not eat before you are hungry, and stop eating before you are full"
"1/3 of your stomach for food 1/3 for water, 1/3 for air"


Posted By: Lizzy
Date Posted: 07 June 2011 at 4:03am
Assalamu Alaikum Fullofhopes,
                                             I am unable to view the private sisters forum and have been denied access. I cannot even email the ICforum manager to ask for permission access. Not sure what to do? Confused
salaams and blessings,
Lizzy


Posted By: umhalil
Date Posted: 06 July 2011 at 12:26pm
Salam!Is THIS the sisters only forum...because I am in desperate need help in a very serious marital problem. Cry


Posted By: icforumadmin
Date Posted: 07 July 2011 at 10:47pm
Salam Umhalil,
 
Now you should have access to sister only forum.
 
Admin


Posted By: Indah
Date Posted: 08 July 2011 at 3:47pm
Salaam Sister...

you can talk to me and whatever happen to you please be strong, Allah give you something because Allah knows you can do it!

I pray Allah will make it easy for you Wink


Posted By: Ishaah
Date Posted: 19 July 2011 at 3:47pm
Salaams
I'm new to this whole thing and i have no idea how to get into the sis's only forum. It said access denied and was looking forward to getting in there. Help plz!
Asa. Aisha


Posted By: Mangomotte
Date Posted: 31 August 2011 at 5:49am
Salam,
Like all the other sisters before me here... my question is, how to get into the "sisters only" forum? Is there a test or do we have to be in for a certain time?
Advise please...Thanks, Mangomotte  


Posted By: donna82d
Date Posted: 03 September 2011 at 11:55pm
It's good to have somewhere private. Thank you.


Posted By: umhalil
Date Posted: 04 September 2011 at 8:15am
Originally posted by donna82d

It's good to have somewhere private. Thank you.
I agree! ClapThumbs%20Up


Posted By: Mangomotte
Date Posted: 05 September 2011 at 12:39pm
Hmmm, Iagree too...so, what do I do now?


Posted By: donna82d
Date Posted: 06 September 2011 at 3:53am
I think i read somewhere that you just need to participate and after you do you will be allowed in.


Posted By: Mangomotte
Date Posted: 07 September 2011 at 5:24am
Well, I do hope I don't have to start bombarding the forum with inane topics to gain accreditation Wink ... On the other hand, I think I'll just get by and post in Sister or even family section, no harm ... this is our Ummah, so we should feel comfortable to talk freely... I think LOL... as long as I won't embarrass anyone.
Am off for few days... time to think.  


Posted By: Chrysalis
Date Posted: 08 September 2011 at 3:48pm
Salaam Sis!

Feel free to inundate us with posts & threads Big%20smile

Also,  try PMing a Moderator to see when/how you can gain access.


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"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."


Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 15 April 2012 at 10:07pm
Originally posted by Full of Hopes



 Asslamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatu Allah


  Dear sisters,

 This is so important. The administrator of this blessed forum made for us a private forum. This forum is amazing cause it is hidden and will appear just if you sign in as a female. Even in case a man got in there by any way, we have the right to inform the administrator, he told us this on the forum.

 So just focus on the title of the forum sisters only, then you see under it a sub title with the name: sub title forum,  sisters' ONLY forum.

 I hope all sisters use this for the private issues that male members should not see at all. This is for our privacy as females and may Allah reward them for doing this for us.

 Peace.

 
Walaikum Salam Wa Rahmatu Allah. I am new here and being a woman,I would like to have access to the sisters only forum. How do I get permission to access it? Thank you very much for your aid in this.


Posted By: ma84
Date Posted: 22 April 2012 at 2:31am
Asalaamu. Alaikum

I have a very private issue but I dont have access to the sub forum..I'm not comfortable posting a new thread where everyone will have access to veiw it...plz give me permit me to use the sub forum to post my thread...plz im in need of some advice...thank u


Posted By: Lameese
Date Posted: 22 April 2012 at 3:37pm
How do we gain access to the "sisters only forum"?

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You Shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another and let it be a moving sea between the the shores of your soul


Posted By: HalaHala2012
Date Posted: 28 May 2012 at 8:20pm
Salam,salam! May I please also be allowed to access the private for women only forum? Shukron jezzelen.


Posted By: Lameese
Date Posted: 29 May 2012 at 1:08pm
I have asked several times and have never recieved an answer

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You Shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another and let it be a moving sea between the the shores of your soul


Posted By: joyful85
Date Posted: 08 July 2012 at 4:05pm
Hi! I'm here from Canada. :)

We have to make 20 posts in order to access the Sisters' Only forum, right?


Posted By: seeja
Date Posted: 19 September 2012 at 4:22am

Salam,

 

One of the requirements you should declare your gender and religion on your profile, in addition to the minimum number of posts.

 

Wassalam,



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Islam (Total Surrender, Submission, Obedience, Sincerity and Peace with Allah) is for all people, in all places and in all times


Posted By: Rofexa
Date Posted: 19 September 2012 at 4:57am
As-Salamu Alaykum, Who is the forum administrator for the sisters only group? I am interested in this forum, we need a safe non-judgemental place to talk freely.


Posted By: Mehak123
Date Posted: 30 July 2014 at 7:34pm
Cant see the sub-forum o.O


Posted By: Muslimamna
Date Posted: 27 September 2014 at 4:41pm
Salaam, I am a new member to this forum and a newly-wed who would like some advice outside of the public forum, which may be appropriate for the private sisters only forum. Please could I have access?


Posted By: loveislam7
Date Posted: 30 September 2014 at 3:47am
Asalaam


I am so grateful to have found this forum, as a muslimah, it is difficult to be able to talk about issues in our lives, i hope to hear back from you as i would love to have such a forum to be able to speak what plagues me and receive advice from fellow muslimahs.


Posted By: poohmom
Date Posted: 07 May 2015 at 6:07pm
I have tried to enter and it will not allow me to do so


Posted By: SenijaSa
Date Posted: 01 July 2015 at 12:45am
I also can't enter, maybe because I am new


Posted By: sim786
Date Posted: 13 July 2015 at 11:50am
assalam o alekum…I am in depression right now as i cant talk to anyone in my family related to this matter( cuz of my mum’s condition, she is sick and wont be able to take this news that i have problem with my husband). As its month of ramadan and my husband doesnt keep fast cuz of his health issues( got high blood pressure and diabetes) and he stops me from keeping fast as well cuz he cant have sex during that period. I listened to him and didnt keep fast on saturdays as he is home that day but i want to keep fast in the last 10 days of ramadan and i did on friday and all day he kept telling me i shouldnt have done that because it was his off day and he wanted sex...after opening fast i was so tired and after reading traveehs i just went to bed and didnt realise i fell sleep ( i am a working mum as well so spent all day at work nd with fast and looking after children i didnt have any energy to do anything). But he is so angry with me now…doest talk to me..i tried to say sorry to him as well but he is just saying go to you mum’s or do whatever you want to do but he has nothing to do with me anymore and will give me divorce if i ask of it as well. I never said no to him for sex before and he is very understanding as well otherwise…we have been married for 12 years and its not new relationship…i dont know what to do please help me or tell me some dua to read.. am i wrong in all this? I feel like doing sin not performing my duties as muslim :(


Posted By: SenijaSa
Date Posted: 16 July 2015 at 2:55am
Dear Sim, I would first of all recommend you to d nothing. If you run after him for every small thing he will make use of it. The one mistake you made is that you didn't fast some days of Ramadan because he said so. You are in no way obligated to do what he says when it is haram.
It might be difficult for you at the moment but let him calm down. If he is a normal person the rest of the time, he will calm down. All of us react when we are angry. You can consider yourself as a happy woman, many women have the problem that the husband doesn't want to touch them. That would be far worse. Pray to Allah to give you patience, and he will turn to you again soon in sha Allah


Posted By: nowornever
Date Posted: 29 July 2015 at 11:14am
Your husband must do fideyah on your behalf for the days he imposed his incorrect and seriously flawed version of fasting during Ramadan and Islam on you. You will have to make up only the days that you missed. Regardless as to how many years you have been married, your husband appears to be self-absorbed, ignorant person. How many times have we read how during Ramadan we fast and in doing so have to avoid sexual activity? This is applicable to all Muslims who are fasting and your husband does not have some kind of special "pass" that gives him permission to tell someone not to fast so he can have sex. Not during Ramadan. I am certain if your husband chose to fast certain days you would respect his efforts and not put him in any situation where he might compromise himself and possibly break his fast. This situation might encourage you to increase your knowledge of correct Islamic teachings regarding the basics of marriage etiquette, fasting and the duties of husband and wife toward one another. I can not emphasize the word correct enough.   Wives are not robots with no feelings or souls whose only duty is to serve their husbands. Many men, in fact, appreciate their wives when their wisdom and knowledge in specific situations saves the husband grief, energy, unhappiness and money. We all know of situations where a knowledge person whispered good nasihah or advised us well. Many times it is the devout wife who does so.



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