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Need Help!! :S

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Printed Date: 16 April 2014 at 6:30am


Topic: Need Help!! :S
Posted By: [Unknown]
Subject: Need Help!! :S
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 2:09pm
Assalamu Alaikum;
 
I have been experiencing a problem for quite a long time. The thing is, I keep having this yellowish brownish beigish discharge. I have this throughout the day. Ofcourse not every second, but I have to change the napkins every now and then. It is not so much that it penetrates the napkin. Just enough to stain it. So, almost every two times I go to the WWC (sorry for being so forward, but I really do need help) I change it. My question is, do I have to make wudu' for every prayer? Or not? I never did, but now I decided that maybe I should check. I need an answer as soon as possible.
 
Thank you very much.



Replies:
Posted By: Full of Hopes
Date Posted: 28 September 2009 at 5:38pm


   Wa Alaikum Asslam

   Sister/ brother: I guess from your question you are a female. I wanted to tell you before everything, I understand that this is an open media, but you need to show us the gender and the location.  This will affect the replies and will not cause you any harm, inshallah.

  Well the female normal discharge doesn't need the wudu. But the istihadhah, that is not period blood, you need wudu for every prayer.

 Sister, I am sure you need to see a female doctor to make sure of this discharge, and the doctor will educate you of the best way to avoid the discharge because sometimes it is because of some unhealthy habits.




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And whoever seeks a religion other than Islâm, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)


Posted By: [Unknown]
Date Posted: 29 September 2009 at 1:24am

Assalamu Alaikum,

This discharge is common with all of my sisters. But, I am not sure what is the difference between the normal daily discharge and istihadah. Also, I would like to correct something I wrote before. The discharge isn't really alot. I don't HAVE to change the napkin unless it's the end of the day or something. And just for sanitary reasons. But throughout the day, it's not that visible. Unless I keep the same napkin for a whole day. And yes, I am a female in Saudi Arabia.

Thank you.


Posted By: Full of Hopes
Date Posted: 30 September 2009 at 9:34pm

  Wa Alaikum Asslam

 Well sister do not worry. The istihadhah is blood which is not the same color not the same smell of the period blood. SO please do not worry about that. Just ignore it and it will disappear.
 About your discharge problem, I feel you should post on the Female ONLY Forum. It is a sub forum to discuss our private issues. You need to sign in to see it. Then we will try to discuss that and help each other. There maybe some advices about this.

 May Allah be pleased
 



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And whoever seeks a religion other than Islâm, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)


Posted By: [Unknown]
Date Posted: 01 October 2009 at 1:46am
Assalamu Alaikum;
 
Is it possible for you to post a link for the forum? Thank you


Posted By: Akhe Abdullah
Date Posted: 01 October 2009 at 2:01am
Salams Sister.This should be in the Sisters part of the forum like F.O.H said.Welcome to ICF.since you are here my advise to you is to seek a doctor.May Allah Help you.


Posted By: Akhe Abdullah
Date Posted: 01 October 2009 at 2:01am
Originally posted by Full of Hopes

  Wa Alaikum Asslam  Well sister do not worry. The istihadhah is blood which is not the same color not the same smell not thick like the period blood. SO please do not worry about that. Just ignore it and it will disappear.  About your discharge problem, I feel you should post on the Female ONLY Forum. It is a sub forum to discuss our private issues. You need to sign in to see it. Then we will try to discuss that and help each other. There maybe some advices about this.  May Allah be pleased 
Ameen


Posted By: Full of Hopes
Date Posted: 02 October 2009 at 6:13pm

  Asslamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatu Allah

  Dear sister Unknown.Heart
  I want to give you a VERY important advice which solves all of your troubles. That is to study about Islam. I see you and your sisters are good Muslims but you can not obey Allah and be a good Muslims without knowledge. Sister, you need to look for some  Islamic Schools. They teach you the bases and like these issues you are asking about. I know school for non-native speakers and they teach you even Arabic. They are out of charge. Just go there and register. This will help you so so much and make you feel the sweet taste of imaan. You also will have the chance to have good Muslim friends. If you tell me your city, I will try to find you some, inshallah.
I am telling you this because you CAN not be a Muslim without enough knowing about Islam. If you do not know this makes you do things and suffer to do things that Allah doesn't want form you and on the other hand you may miss more important things.
 You are my sister in Islam and I want to be honest with you. Believe me I do not mean any thing wrong about you. On the contrary of that, it is clear that you are a VERY good Muslim. May Allah bless you. Wink



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And whoever seeks a religion other than Islâm, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)


Posted By: [Unknown]
Date Posted: 03 October 2009 at 1:31am
Assalamu Alaikum;
 
I would love to go to an Islamic school. But, I can't. That's why I ask my questions and hope to learn from here. However, thank you so much for your advice. The reason I don't know much about Islam is because I only started practicing Islam recently. I appreciate any help I can get though.
 
So, thank you. :D


Posted By: Full of Hopes
Date Posted: 05 October 2009 at 5:34pm

  Asslamu Alaikum

 Dear sister, I am sorry if I hurt you. Ok you can read Islamic books. You can also study Islam online out of charge. Some Islamic Schools are teaching you online. Try AL-Madinah International University online.
   There are so many ways to educate yourself about Islam.  I was just saying this is the key to solve all of your troubles inshallah.
  And I want to tell you frankly that this place is not an Islamic Educational place nor a place for answering Question in Figh or Islamic law. Here, they can help you in general issues, like family life, .. But for telling you that a certain thing is Haram or Halah, this is not the correct place.
  I also advise you not to accept any reply without showing the proofs of it from Quraan and Sunnah, because this an open media. Wicked souls may lie and add to Islam in anyplace on the net.

 So I am just telling you the correct way to be a good Muslim.

 May Allah be pleased. Do Duaa alot for Allah to educate you in this deen, guide you into the right path and keep you on it.

 Salam



 


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And whoever seeks a religion other than Islâm, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)


Posted By: [Unknown]
Date Posted: 06 October 2009 at 12:42am
Wa Alaikum Assalam;
 
Do not worry. You didn't hurt me. It's just that I'm dealing with some family issues. I will take your advice and study online or from books. Thank you very much for warning me about this. I tried calling the number you gave me before but I got no answer. I called several times. I will try calling again at a later time.
 
If it is not any trouble to you, would you mind posting some links to such websites?
 
Thank you very much.


Posted By: Full of Hopes
Date Posted: 06 October 2009 at 5:57pm

  Asslamu Alaikum
 dear sister unknown. I really want to help you. Because I see you are a good Muslim, who try to fight to know her deen. I liked that in you. I pray for you from my heart. but I am not sure of any web site to tell you about. The unversity I mention above is perfect and I think,  the Islamic Acadimy. Seach the web for them. Just write in google and you find it.

    Just never give up trying to educate yourself in Islam by any way. And also never stop asking Allah to teach you more in Islam. Remember this duaa..

   اللهم فقهني في دينك
Allahum Faghni fee deenik
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 Another very important advice is that, I am sorry to tell you to show your location in previous post. Now I advise you to delete it again. Be careful sister, because so many here are curious about the Saudi society. You may receive private massages asking you about the society or trying to know about you, please never reply to the male private messages. I like you so that I care for you... BE CAREFUL.



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And whoever seeks a religion other than Islâm, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)



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