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Originally posted by haris30432

"ofcourse they meet but under the supervision of the bride's parents. "

Explain this please.How do they supervise??I think the whole meeting before marriage thing becomes a kind of a joke then.And what about the bride groom's parents?Arent they gonna be doing some supervision too?!

Haris, why on earth do I see you talk directly and sometimes indirectly against the Prophet SAW in every other thread?
May I know who the heck are you to call the Prophet's Sunnah of the pre-marriage meeting a "joke"?

Quit being ignorant, they don't 'supervise' in the sense you make it sound. The idea's to not let the meeting between the two be private, in other words not the two alone, IMO. What about the bridegroom's parents you ask? What about them? The only thing that matters for a must is the bride's parent's should be present, IMO, if the bridegroom too wants to have his parents by his side, then heck, he can very well go 
ahead. 
Sure, if Sunnah's a joke to you, go ahead and marry someone who you have no frikkin clue about.

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xx__Ace__xx Senior Member Joined: 01 June 2010 Online Status: Offline Posts: 100	Posted: 14 June 2010 at 5:52am
	*Originally posted by haris30432* "ofcourse they meet but under the supervision of the bride's parents. " Explain this please.How do they supervise??I think the whole meeting before marriage thing becomes a kind of a joke then.And what about the bride groom's parents?Arent they gonna be doing some supervision too?! Haris, why on earth do I see you talk directly and sometimes indirectly against the Prophet SAW in every other thread? May I know who the heck are you to call the Prophet's Sunnah of the pre-marriage meeting a "joke"? Quit being ignorant, they don't 'supervise' in the sense you make it sound. The idea's to not let the meeting between the two be private, in other words not the two alone, IMO. What about the bridegroom's parents you ask? What about them? The only thing that matters for a must is the bride's parent's should be present, IMO, if the bridegroom too wants to have his parents by his side, then heck, he can very well go ahead. Sure, if Sunnah's a joke to you, go ahead and marry someone who you have no frikkin clue about.
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qazi rehan Starter Joined: 12 March 2011 Online Status: Offline Posts: 9	Posted: 26 March 2011 at 3:42pm
	Ask your parents hope they will arrange much better for you
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