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Quote Samir_Abdul Replybullet Posted: 19 February 2010 at 10:53am

what men want????

my answer to the question for me personally, is a companion that i can share my physical, mental,spirtual life with....some one who relates to me on a wide variety of cultural,educational, economical, and spirtual values...
and pretty face is always good...
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Quote haris30432 Replybullet Posted: 20 February 2010 at 12:45am


Well that depends on what kind of a man he is.If he is a believer and is looking for a partner,he would obviously look for a believeing woman.Race,culture,wealth etc etc becomes secondary.And most importantly GOD commands us to marry believing  ppl.This would give us peace and happiness in our married life.Now coming back to your situation,i would say that there is no need for you to be in an argument with your ex.If you are remarried,this might upset your current husband.If you have a child with your ex,the contact should only be for the sake of him being able to meet his child or sending money or whatever according to the agreement reached between the both of you during the divorce.I dont understand whats the need for someone to discuss the reasons for divorce after it has already happened and both of the parties are already married again.

its not even about these men anymore. its about me and the way i conduct myself in relationships. it took me some time to do some self reflection and i realise that i gave these men the licence to hurt me and do what they did to me. i needed to recover from past patterens of behaviour or else i will find myself repeating past mistakes and getting the same end results, no matter which man im married to.
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Quote Shema Replybullet Posted: 04 March 2010 at 2:58pm
i thjink your hus is looking for excuses to make youi understand that he is gone forever so pls move on
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