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foody

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Posted: 01 May 2006 at 12:31am

I am sorry if I have offended you, but how did I offend you? Please brother let us discuss it, which of the statement I said above there have offended you?

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herjihad

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Posted: 01 May 2006 at 5:24am

Bismillah,

Side note: One boy went fishing with his dad this weekend and I took the other to a sports competition.

Besides spending time with kids, we need to set as good a role model for them as we can. When we treat our spouses respectfully and exhibit honesty and integrity in our dealings with them, our children grow to really appreciate the worth of good behavior.

Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.

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salman

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Posted: 01 May 2006 at 7:31am

Originally posted by foody

I am sorry if I have offended you, but how did I offend you? Please brother let us discuss it, which of the statement I said above there have offended you?

foody, the statements which you said that i would leave my son in forest just pinched me a bit. foody its ok. never mind. i accept your apology.

It is better to be alone than to be in bad company.

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foody

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Posted: 01 May 2006 at 9:12am

:-) I will becareful next time what comes out of my mouth from heated or emotional arguements.

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gumus

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Posted: 10 August 2008 at 12:24am

Good idea Jenni, about getting your child the most basic phone which you can only use to dial, no photos or texts and extra stuff which could cause further problems, as a phone is a phone in case of emergency if you need to call.

It's cultural guys can get away with dating and stuff.

I realized in Islam it's more srtict for the man and the punishments are the same for boys and girls, so why do parents say it's OK for the guys to do anything.

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astroman

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Posted: 19 November 2008 at 10:38pm

STOP LETTING BOYS RUN WILD
Parents have been saying this since we learned to be civilised as a family and a community! No amount of 'locks' and bags of regulations can prevent your children running wild! We believe in the positive role and 'doa' of parents in the upbringing of their children since 'early pregnancy'. Simply, ones has had to have abundant knowledge, 'resilience', 'spiritual strength' and finally and gradually setting strong principles of the life that he wish to live based on good values of the society, culture and belief that are available around him.

salam
astroman

Edited by astroman - 22 November 2008 at 5:44am

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foody Senior Member Joined: 27 April 2006 Online Status: Offline Posts: 121	Posted: 01 May 2006 at 12:31am
	I am sorry if I have offended you, but how did I offend you? Please brother let us discuss it, which of the statement I said above there have offended you?
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herjihad Senior Member Joined: 26 January 2005 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 2473	Posted: 01 May 2006 at 5:24am
	*Bismillah,* *Side note: One boy went fishing with his dad this weekend and I took the other to a sports competition.* Besides spending time with kids, we need to set as good a role model for them as we can. When we treat our spouses respectfully and exhibit honesty and integrity in our dealings with them, our children grow to really appreciate the worth of good behavior.
	Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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salman Guest Group Joined: 17 March 2006 Location: India Online Status: Offline Posts: 569	Posted: 01 May 2006 at 7:31am
	*Originally posted by foody* I am sorry if I have offended you, but how did I offend you? Please brother let us discuss it, which of the statement I said above there have offended you? foody, the statements which you said that i would leave my son in forest just pinched me a bit. foody its ok. never mind. i accept your apology.
	It is better to be alone than to be in bad company.
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foody Senior Member Joined: 27 April 2006 Online Status: Offline Posts: 121	Posted: 01 May 2006 at 9:12am
	:-) I will becareful next time what comes out of my mouth from heated or emotional arguements.
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gumus Starter Joined: 09 August 2008 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 10	Posted: 10 August 2008 at 12:24am
	Good idea Jenni, about getting your child the most basic phone which you can only use to dial, no photos or texts and extra stuff which could cause further problems, as a phone is a phone in case of emergency if you need to call. It's cultural guys can get away with dating and stuff. I realized in Islam it's more srtict for the man and the punishments are the same for boys and girls, so why do parents say it's OK for the guys to do anything.
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astroman Newbie Joined: 11 October 2008 Location: Malaysia Online Status: Offline Posts: 30	Posted: 19 November 2008 at 10:38pm
	STOP LETTING BOYS RUN WILD Parents have been saying this since we learned to be civilised as a family and a community! No amount of 'locks' and bags of regulations can prevent your children running wild! We believe in the positive role and 'doa' of parents in the upbringing of their children since 'early pregnancy'. Simply, ones has had to have abundant knowledge, 'resilience', 'spiritual strength' and finally and gradually setting strong principles of the life that he wish to live based on good values of the society, culture and belief that are available around him. salam astroman Edited by astroman - 22 November 2008 at 5:44am
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