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Quote amah Replybullet Posted: 12 May 2006 at 7:48pm
First of all, try not to worry....... and don't get under pressure due to grandparents, it is the question of your life! Keep doing dhikr to calm your heart....and pray lots and make lots of dua....just meet him first before jumping to conclusions....if you like him, do istikhara and say yes.....and if you don't like him, you know what to do...

Everything will be ok Insha Allah sis! Allah does what is best for you..
Allah is Sufficient as a Walee (Protector) and Allah is Sufficient as a Naseer (Helper).
(Surah An-Nisa, Chapter #4, Verse #45)
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Quote ahlam Replybullet Posted: 28 May 2006 at 5:08pm

Asalamu Alaikum

I talked to him on the phone and it went very well. He is supposed to come here on Thursday, and I will make my final decsion then. What kind of questions should I ask him? Thank you all for your help again, it really helped out a lot~

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Quote herjihad Replybullet Posted: 29 May 2006 at 11:08pm

Bismillah,

I don't see why you have to make a final decision so quickly.  People want you to make a decision, but you have the right to say:  No, Yes or maybe later after I talk to you more.

Look at Sister Umzibba's post of:  Questions to ask a possible spouse.  Add any questions that you feel are important, and take off the ones that you have the answer for or are irrelevant to your situation.

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Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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Quote ahlam Replybullet Posted: 31 May 2006 at 8:25pm
Actually, I have given it quite a lot of thought. I have been thinking about this for almost 4 months. Inshallah Allah swt will guide me to the right path~
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Quote ahlam Replybullet Posted: 13 June 2006 at 9:04am

Asalamu Alaikum

Well everything went very well. I am engaged now. Hamdillah he is a very good person and I am very happy. Thanks again for all your help

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