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Quote ak_m_f Replybullet Posted: 24 March 2006 at 1:16pm
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he lives in a $500,000 house.


WOW!



grocery worker = $500,000 house

how?
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Quote salman Replybullet Posted: 24 March 2006 at 10:13pm
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Asalamu Alakum

I am 17 years old. Recently, my first cousin asked for me. He is a really nice guy. He was raised in Palestine, so he speaks arabic. But I am a little worried because I understand arabic very well but my speaking skills aren't that great. How will I know if we will be able to communicate? I don't know what to do. Please help.

walaikumussalam

recite the dua which prophet Moses (peace be upon him) made to Allah when Allah ordered prophet Moses (peace be upon him) to go to Fir'aun.

the verse is mentioned in the Quran.

pray to Allah.

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Quote bayatwp Replybullet Posted: 31 March 2006 at 11:32am

salaamz alhlam

I suggest you make istikhaarah salaah.Only Allah can guide you towards the corect decision.Also I think that if your parents approve of him then he cant be that bad .Whether he is a grocery worker or not should not concern you unless it means he cant take care of you financially.so inshallah i hope Allah guides you towards the truth!!!whatever it may be 

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Quote Abeer23 Replybullet Posted: 31 March 2006 at 11:35pm

Don't say no to him, just start working on your spoken Arabic.  You can already understand it so it will be quite easy.   I agree with bayatwp, do istikhara, trust in Allah, and trust in parents too.

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Quote ahlam Replybullet Posted: 13 April 2006 at 7:08am
I prayed salat al-istikhara and I found myself wanting to marry my cousin but then i had a dream. In my dream my grandparents came from Palestine to the US and my grandma asked me what happened with Mohammed my cousin and there were lots of people at my house and everyone heard her and would think I am engaged to him. Then I went into my room and got so mad that I cried. Is that a sign I shouldn't marry him?
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Quote ak_m_f Replybullet Posted: 13 April 2006 at 9:49am
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I prayed salat al-istikhara and I found myself wanting to marry my cousin but then i had a dream. In my dream my grandparents came from Palestine to the US and my grandma asked me what happened with Mohammed my cousin and there were lots of people at my house and everyone heard her and would think I am engaged to him. Then I went into my room and got so mad that I cried. Is that a sign I shouldn't marry him?


write to some mufti or scholar.
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Quote ahlam Replybullet Posted: 21 April 2006 at 8:05am
Do you know any muftis or scholars? Or, do you know where I can find one?
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Quote salman Replybullet Posted: 21 April 2006 at 8:09am

why don't you contact islamicity imam

www.islamicity.com/qa

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