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ak_m_f

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Posted: 24 March 2006 at 1:16pm

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Originally posted by ahlam

he lives in a $500,000 house.

WOW!

grocery worker = $500,000 house

how?

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Posted: 24 March 2006 at 10:13pm

Originally posted by ahlam

Asalamu Alakum

I am 17 years old. Recently, my first cousin asked for me. He is a really nice guy. He was raised in Palestine, so he speaks arabic. But I am a little worried because I understand arabic very well but my speaking skills aren't that great. How will I know if we will be able to communicate? I don't know what to do. Please help.

walaikumussalam

recite the dua which prophet Moses (peace be upon him) made to Allah when Allah ordered prophet Moses (peace be upon him) to go to Fir'aun.

the verse is mentioned in the Quran.

pray to Allah.

if Allah wills, Allah will solve your problem.

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Posted: 31 March 2006 at 11:32am

salaamz alhlam

I suggest you make istikhaarah salaah.Only Allah can guide you towards the corect decision.Also I think that if your parents approve of him then he cant be that bad .Whether he is a grocery worker or not should not concern you unless it means he cant take care of you financially.so inshallah i hope Allah guides you towards the truth!!!whatever it may be

whoever Allah guides is rightly guided!

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Posted: 31 March 2006 at 11:35pm

Don't say no to him, just start working on your spoken Arabic. You can already understand it so it will be quite easy. I agree with bayatwp, do istikhara, trust in Allah, and trust in parents too.

Salaam

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Posted: 13 April 2006 at 7:08am

I prayed salat al-istikhara and I found myself wanting to marry my cousin but then i had a dream. In my dream my grandparents came from Palestine to the US and my grandma asked me what happened with Mohammed my cousin and there were lots of people at my house and everyone heard her and would think I am engaged to him. Then I went into my room and got so mad that I cried. Is that a sign I shouldn't marry him?

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Posted: 13 April 2006 at 9:49am

Originally posted by ahlam

I prayed salat al-istikhara and I found myself wanting to marry my cousin but then i had a dream. In my dream my grandparents came from Palestine to the US and my grandma asked me what happened with Mohammed my cousin and there were lots of people at my house and everyone heard her and would think I am engaged to him. Then I went into my room and got so mad that I cried. Is that a sign I shouldn't marry him?

write to some mufti or scholar.

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Posted: 21 April 2006 at 8:05am

Do you know any muftis or scholars? Or, do you know where I can find one?

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Posted: 21 April 2006 at 8:09am

why don't you contact islamicity imam

www.islamicity.com/qa

It is better to be alone than to be in bad company.

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ak_m_f Senior Member Joined: 15 October 2005 Location: Canada Online Status: Offline Posts: 3274	Posted: 24 March 2006 at 1:16pm
	*Originally posted by Angel* *Originally posted by ahlam* he lives in a $500,000 house. WOW! grocery worker = $500,000 house how?
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salman Guest Group Joined: 17 March 2006 Location: India Online Status: Offline Posts: 569	Posted: 24 March 2006 at 10:13pm
	*Originally posted by ahlam* Asalamu Alakum I am 17 years old. Recently, my first cousin asked for me. He is a really nice guy. He was raised in Palestine, so he speaks arabic. But I am a little worried because I understand arabic very well but my speaking skills aren't that great. How will I know if we will be able to communicate? I don't know what to do. Please help. walaikumussalam recite the dua which prophet Moses (peace be upon him) made to Allah when Allah ordered prophet Moses (peace be upon him) to go to Fir'aun. the verse is mentioned in the Quran. pray to Allah. if Allah wills, Allah will solve your problem.
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bayatwp Starter Joined: 23 March 2006 Location: South Africa Online Status: Offline Posts: 2	Posted: 31 March 2006 at 11:32am
	salaamz alhlam I suggest you make istikhaarah salaah.Only Allah can guide you towards the corect decision.Also I think that if your parents approve of him then he cant be that bad .Whether he is a grocery worker or not should not concern you unless it means he cant take care of you financially.so inshallah i hope Allah guides you towards the truth!!!whatever it may be
	whoever Allah guides is rightly guided!
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Abeer23 Senior Member Joined: 28 September 2005 Online Status: Offline Posts: 493	Posted: 31 March 2006 at 11:35pm
	Don't say no to him, just start working on your spoken Arabic. You can already understand it so it will be quite easy. I agree with bayatwp, do istikhara, trust in Allah, and trust in parents too. Salaam
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ahlam Newbie Joined: 07 March 2006 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 21	Posted: 13 April 2006 at 7:08am
	I prayed salat al-istikhara and I found myself wanting to marry my cousin but then i had a dream. In my dream my grandparents came from Palestine to the US and my grandma asked me what happened with Mohammed my cousin and there were lots of people at my house and everyone heard her and would think I am engaged to him. Then I went into my room and got so mad that I cried. Is that a sign I shouldn't marry him?
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ak_m_f Senior Member Joined: 15 October 2005 Location: Canada Online Status: Offline Posts: 3274	Posted: 13 April 2006 at 9:49am
	*Originally posted by ahlam* I prayed salat al-istikhara and I found myself wanting to marry my cousin but then i had a dream. In my dream my grandparents came from Palestine to the US and my grandma asked me what happened with Mohammed my cousin and there were lots of people at my house and everyone heard her and would think I am engaged to him. Then I went into my room and got so mad that I cried. Is that a sign I shouldn't marry him? write to some mufti or scholar.
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ahlam Newbie Joined: 07 March 2006 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 21	Posted: 21 April 2006 at 8:05am
	Do you know any muftis or scholars? Or, do you know where I can find one?
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salman Guest Group Joined: 17 March 2006 Location: India Online Status: Offline Posts: 569	Posted: 21 April 2006 at 8:09am
	why don't you contact islamicity imam www.islamicity.com/qa
	It is better to be alone than to be in bad company.
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