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Quote sister76 Replybullet Posted: 14 November 2005 at 2:50pm

Another thing is if you even start out and end up having kid(s) early you get assisstance from the government in the UK.

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Quote no.shirk Replybullet Posted: 28 February 2006 at 5:03pm

1. Marriage is for the sake of Allah. Its purposes are to

establish a Muslim family, have offspring, transmit

the message of Allah, and through them, carry on

the human race. Allah, the Almighty, has said:

Say: ”Allah did choose Adam and Noah, the fam-ily

of Abraham, and the family of ’Imran above all

people, offspring, one of the other. [Qur’an 3:34]

2. Marriage serves to protect one’s modesty and dignity,

and one’s fear of the Lord. The Prophet of Allah (s)

said:

Three [people] are entitled to Allah’s help. The

fighter (mujahid) in the cause of Allah, the trustee,

and the person who marries for protection (of his or

her modesty). [Tirmidhi]

Whoever marries, has completed half of his religion,

and the other half is fear of Allah. [Tabrani]

3. The choice of a lifetime partner, a wife or a husband,

demands one’s best effort. The Messenger of Allah

(s) said:

”Choose[the best] for your generation because [the

failure of a single] generation can lead to a crisis.”

[Ibn Majah]

4. The qualities of a good wife are good behavior and

religious commitment, not wealth and beauty. The

Messenger of Allah (s), said:

Do not marry women because of their beauty; their

beauty may spoil them. Do not marry them because

of their money; their money may oppress them. But

marry them because of their piety (din). And a slave

girl, deaf, but pious is better. [Ibn Majah]

If a man marries a woman because of her (worldly)

status, Allah will reward him only with degradation;

and if a man marries her because of her wealth, this

will bring him only poverty; and if a man marries

because of her family, Allah will reward him only by

humiliation; but if a man marries for the sake of Al-lah,

Allah will bless him with her and bless her with

him. [Tabrani]

"I do not care in what state I wake up in the morning; whether it's good or bad. Because I do not know what is good for me, nor what is bad."
[Umar Ibn al-Khattab RA]

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Quote amat Replybullet Posted: 26 July 2006 at 8:05pm

MAke dua to allah to get u a spouse soon!

its better to get married early....

otherwise u'll lose ur beauty & desires!

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Quote no.shirk Replybullet Posted: 27 July 2006 at 5:39pm

bismail-lah

Alhamderillahie-rubbul aalymeen since that last time i posted Posted: ***01 March 2006 at 3:03am | IP Logged** thats when i was looking for marriage hehe and striving to do it in halal and i had to be very patient and very choosey on the deen part but i couldnt find any 1 but subhanallah the family of my spouse found me, and all praises to allah, that now he has blessed me with a spouse alhamderillah    she is very rightious may allah protect her and preserve her, and may allah the most high bless all of my brothers and sisters in islam in there marriage and in every thing else on wat is halal and may allah give you wats best for you all.  (allahumma ameen)



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"I do not care in what state I wake up in the morning; whether it's good or bad. Because I do not know what is good for me, nor what is bad."
[Umar Ibn al-Khattab RA]

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Quote herjihad Replybullet Posted: 28 July 2006 at 8:08am
Originally posted by amat

MAke dua to allah to get u a spouse soon!

its better to get married early....

otherwise u'll lose ur beauty & desires!

Bismillah,

This is an uninformed, silly comment.

Salaamu Alaykum

Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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Quote herjihad Replybullet Posted: 28 July 2006 at 8:09am
Originally posted by no.shirk

bismail-lah

Alhamderillahie-rubbul aalymeen since that last time i posted Posted: ***01 March 2006 at 3:03am | IP Logged** thats when i was looking for marriage hehe and striving to do it in halal and i had to be very patient and very choosey on the deen part but i couldnt find any 1 but subhanallah the family of my spouse found me, and all praises to allah, that now he has blessed me with a spouse alhamderillah    she is very rightious may allah protect her and preserve her, and may allah the most high bless all of my brothers and sisters in islam in there marriage and in every thing else on wat is halal and may allah give you wats best for you all.  (allahumma ameen)

 

Bismillah,

Mabrook!  Congratulations!

Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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Quote no.shirk Replybullet Posted: 30 July 2006 at 1:22am
allah barik feehki,
"I do not care in what state I wake up in the morning; whether it's good or bad. Because I do not know what is good for me, nor what is bad."
[Umar Ibn al-Khattab RA]

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