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ZamanH

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Posted: 30 March 2005 at 9:10pm

As Salaam Alaikum,

We are looking for a bride for my elder brother. He is 27 yers old and he is a highly qualified professional. He often goes overseas to work( in fact, he has been working in the U.S for more than 1 year now) and he is, sort of, a busy person. We are confused about whether we should approach professional woman or, girls who don't work outside home. I would be grateful to any one who posts his/her opinion regarding the matter.

Thank you.

ZamanH

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Posted: 30 March 2005 at 9:28pm

Why not look out both groups of girls

Also maybe an independant girl with her own interest

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Posted: 04 April 2005 at 1:44am

hi Angel,

Thanks for the reply.

By the way, I don't think women who work at home are less independent than those who work outside home.

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There will be more women in hell than men.
..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191)
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Posted: 04 April 2005 at 10:39pm

Salam,

Just go to icmarriage.com, there are hundreds choices that ready to build a family.

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Posted: 05 April 2005 at 7:21pm

I honestly wouldnt encourage looking for a bride, or husband for that matter, on the internet. Its very unsafe and unreliable.

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Posted: 05 April 2005 at 10:12pm

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Salam,

Just go to icmarriage.com, there are hundreds choices that ready to build a family.

It appears to me, you didn't read my post. I want to know opinion of other members about an issue concerning our search for a bride for my elder brother (and I am not looking for a bride for myself).

Thank you,

Zaman.

Edited by ZamanH

An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend.
There will be more women in hell than men.
..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191)
Heaven lies under mother's feet

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Posted: 07 April 2005 at 5:58pm

It appears to me, you didn't read my post. I want to know opinion of other members about an issue concerning our search for a bride for my elder brother (and I am not looking for a bride for myself).

Thank you,

Have you asked him what sort of woman he might like to marry? If he's 27 one assumes he might have some idea of the woman he would like to spend his life with.

Kim...

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Posted: 07 April 2005 at 10:56pm

Salam,

ZamanH, why you even bothered to find a bride for your brother here? Most peoples in this forum are reside in the west. In other threads you insisted that peoples in the west have been eaten by the western culture that against islamic value. So according to your assumption it's impossible to find a bride that meet your requirements. Why don't you just find her in India that according to you it's way more easy to find untouched man and women compare in the west.

Bellow I copied your statements from other threads:

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The prevalence of lechery among "Muslims" settled in the West is invariably due to the influence of the Western "culture". I have heard that the first-generation of Muslims settled in the West lose their culture; the second generation of them, their language and the third generation, thier religion.

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I know that large number (though, not many) of the Muslims in India are unchaste, I don't accept that most of them are unchaste. It was earlier stated in this thread that it is difficult to find chaste men. I thought that was said about Muslims in the West (probably, by a Muslim settled in the West), as consuption of wine and illicit (islamically) sex are widespred (or rampant) in the Western "culture". ===
Nearly 500 years back, people in the West rebelled against corrupt religious hierarchy and thought that they have rebelled against God and won. Now, they seem to pride themselves over their godlessness. Their advances in the field of science has removed the fear of God from their hearts and made them feel superior to Allah (subhan-Allah). No other group of people have oppressed the weak and poor people of the world as much as the Westerners and for as long as they are doing. They permit lechery and sodomy among themselves. Whether they admit it or not, they are exceedingly indulging in wine and women. Western "culture" is exceptionally antagonistic to Islam (and Muslims) compared to other cultures. Muslims have suffered so much because of them..... The writing on the wall is, there can be NO compromise between Islam and the West. Those "Muslims" who have adopted WEstern culture will have to decide soon about which side they are in - Islam or the West (this is not any kind of demand from me, its my anticipation/prediction).
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It is interesting that Muslims lose their culture and language in no time, when they settle in the West;whereas, when it comes to uniting (or creating an Islamic state) they come up with complex theories about how much they love their language and culture etc. and how difficult it is for them to create an Islamic state because of that.
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Salam/Peace,
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ZamanH Guest Group Account Suspended Joined: 21 July 2004 Location: India Online Status: Offline Posts: 448	Topic: Looking for a Bride Posted: 30 March 2005 at 9:10pm
	As Salaam Alaikum, We are looking for a bride for my elder brother. He is 27 yers old and he is a highly qualified professional. He often goes overseas to work( in fact, he has been working in the U.S for more than 1 year now) and he is, sort of, a busy person. We are confused about whether we should approach professional woman or, girls who don't work outside home. I would be grateful to any one who posts his/her opinion regarding the matter. Thank you. ZamanH
	An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend. There will be more women in hell than men. ..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191) Heaven lies under mother's feet
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Angel Senior Member Joined: 03 July 2001 Online Status: Offline Posts: 6626	Posted: 30 March 2005 at 9:28pm
	Why not look out both groups of girls Also maybe an independant girl with her own interest
	[IMG]http://www.mysmilie.de/smilies/engel/img/003.gif" />~ Our feet are earthbound, but our hearts and our minds have wings ~
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ZamanH Guest Group Account Suspended Joined: 21 July 2004 Location: India Online Status: Offline Posts: 448	Posted: 04 April 2005 at 1:44am
	hi Angel, Thanks for the reply. By the way, I don't think women who work at home are less independent than those who work outside home.
	An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend. There will be more women in hell than men. ..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191) Heaven lies under mother's feet
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icforumadmin Admin Group Joined: 15 February 2005 Online Status: Offline Posts: 740	Posted: 04 April 2005 at 10:39pm
	Salam, Just go to icmarriage.com, there are hundreds choices that ready to build a family. Edited by Administrator
	Best Regards & Peace, Admin
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Knowledge01 Senior Member Joined: 19 March 2005 Online Status: Offline Posts: 457	Posted: 05 April 2005 at 7:21pm
	I honestly wouldnt encourage looking for a bride, or husband for that matter, on the internet. Its very unsafe and unreliable.
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ZamanH Guest Group Account Suspended Joined: 21 July 2004 Location: India Online Status: Offline Posts: 448	Posted: 05 April 2005 at 10:12pm
	*Originally posted by Administrator* Salam, Just go to icmarriage.com, there are hundreds choices that ready to build a family. It appears to me, you didn't read my post. I want to know opinion of other members about an issue concerning our search for a bride for my elder brother (and I am not looking for a bride for myself). Thank you, Zaman. Edited by ZamanH
	An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend. There will be more women in hell than men. ..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191) Heaven lies under mother's feet
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kim! Senior Member Joined: 17 September 2001 Location: Australia Online Status: Offline Posts: 2390	Posted: 07 April 2005 at 5:58pm
	It appears to me, you didn't read my post. I want to know opinion of other members about an issue concerning our search for a bride for my elder brother (and I am not looking for a bride for myself). Thank you, Have you asked him what sort of woman he might like to marry? If he's 27 one assumes he might have some idea of the woman he would like to spend his life with. Kim...
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semar Senior Member Senior Member Joined: 11 March 2005 Online Status: Online Posts: 1234	Posted: 07 April 2005 at 10:56pm
	Salam, ZamanH, why you even bothered to find a bride for your brother here? Most peoples in this forum are reside in the west. In other threads you insisted that peoples in the west have been eaten by the western culture that against islamic value. So according to your assumption it's impossible to find a bride that meet your requirements. Why don't you just find her in India that according to you it's way more easy to find untouched man and women compare in the west. Bellow I copied your statements from other threads: === The prevalence of lechery among "Muslims" settled in the West is invariably due to the influence of the Western "culture". I have heard that the first-generation of Muslims settled in the West lose their culture; the second generation of them, their language and the third generation, thier religion. === I know that large number (though, not many) of the Muslims in India are unchaste, I don't accept that most of them are unchaste. It was earlier stated in this thread that it is difficult to find chaste men. I thought that was said about Muslims in the West (probably, by a Muslim settled in the West), as consuption of wine and illicit (islamically) sex are widespred (or rampant) in the Western "culture". === Nearly 500 years back, people in the West rebelled against corrupt religious hierarchy and thought that they have rebelled against God and won. Now, they seem to pride themselves over their godlessness. Their advances in the field of science has removed the fear of God from their hearts and made them feel superior to Allah (subhan-Allah). No other group of people have oppressed the weak and poor people of the world as much as the Westerners and for as long as they are doing. They permit lechery and sodomy among themselves. Whether they admit it or not, they are exceedingly indulging in wine and women. Western "culture" is exceptionally antagonistic to Islam (and Muslims) compared to other cultures. Muslims have suffered so much because of them..... The writing on the wall is, there can be NO compromise between Islam and the West. Those "Muslims" who have adopted WEstern culture will have to decide soon about which side they are in - Islam or the West (this is not any kind of demand from me, its my anticipation/prediction). ==== It is interesting that Muslims lose their culture and language in no time, when they settle in the West;whereas, when it comes to uniting (or creating an Islamic state) they come up with complex theories about how much they love their language and culture etc. and how difficult it is for them to create an Islamic state because of that. ==== Edited by semar
	Salam/Peace, Semar The Prophet said: "Do not eat before you are hungry, and stop eating before you are full" "1/3 of your stomach for food 1/3 for water, 1/3 for air"
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