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ak_m_f

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Posted: 30 November 2005 at 5:57pm

Originally posted by aishag88

But I still have found the guys have crushes on me!

whats wrong with that ?

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Posted: 28 February 2006 at 5:29pm

salem alaykum, i was reading thru this thread and i found that many people with out knowledge are answering questions not even according to the quran and sunnah, heres a web site were you can ask scholars or sheihks with extensive research in islam http://www.islamqna.com/subpage.php?s=asktoquestion_1 dear brothers and sisters im telling yous this because i love yous only for the sake of allah, fear allah!!! and ull be succesfull.

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Posted: 28 February 2006 at 10:03pm

Yes.. boys are bad.. stay away from us... nothing but trouble we are.... yes... CONTROL YOUR SELF!

The hand shaking thing is incredibly irregular. Though if it works for the Germaphobes.. I guess it can work for somone who wants to avoid all contact with the opposite sex. Though to say "Its because of my Religion" I think is extreme. If you are so suseptible to hormonal wiles that a simple hand-shake may set you off, then there are other issues at stake first..

I am not saying Imitate the west or their customs or whatever.... But a Hand-shake is a common Greeting.. if not Universal..

But i guess what works for some.. may not work for Others.. or everyone.. to each his own eh?

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Posted: 13 April 2006 at 9:21pm

salaam, i dont personally think its wrong to love other sex. u have eyes , u have feelings. don't you? but what is imprtant is that is u really in love or playing. i dont think so love is beautiful but not everyone realize it.

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Posted: 13 April 2006 at 9:32pm

is flirt and love same? i dont think so . why ppl think when u love someone then u are flriting. i dont agree with this totally . i love someone and i saw him year ago but there is something else, trust emotions feelings respect thats love.

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Posted: 19 May 2006 at 6:42pm

Originally posted by aishag88

Wow I think thats kind of hard. I mean theres school, how you not look at another person of the opposite sex? any ideas?

You can look at the other sex or talk with them but the thing you cant do is touch them or be alone with them.Thats haram.

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Posted: 19 May 2006 at 8:32pm

Originally posted by aishag88

Wow I think thats kind of hard. I mean theres school, how you not look at another person of the opposite sex? any ideas?

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yea go and live under taliban

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Posted: 21 May 2006 at 10:32am

Originally posted by Amirul

Originally posted by aishag88

Wow I think thats kind of hard. I mean theres school, how you not look at another person of the opposite sex? any ideas?

You can look at the other sex or talk with them but the thing you cant do is touch them or be alone with them.Thats haram.

Bismillah,

Are you sure it's haram to be alone with someone? I know it is makruh because it could lead to sin, but are you sure just the act of sitting and talking in a room with someone of the opposite sex a sin?

Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.

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ak_m_f Senior Member Joined: 15 October 2005 Location: Canada Online Status: Offline Posts: 3274	Posted: 30 November 2005 at 5:57pm
	*Originally posted by aishag88* But I still have found the guys have crushes on me! whats wrong with that ?
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no.shirk Newbie Joined: 18 February 2006 Location: Australia Online Status: Offline Posts: 10	Posted: 28 February 2006 at 5:29pm
	salem alaykum, i was reading thru this thread and i found that many people with out knowledge are answering questions not even according to the quran and sunnah, heres a web site were you can ask scholars or sheihks with extensive research in islam http://www.islamqna.com/subpage.php?s=asktoquestion_1 dear brothers and sisters im telling yous this because i love yous only for the sake of allah, fear allah!!! and ull be succesfull.
	"I do not care in what state I wake up in the morning; whether it's good or bad. Because I do not know what is good for me, nor what is bad." [Umar Ibn al-Khattab RA]
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-ArabianKnight- Guest Group Joined: 29 July 2001 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 227	Posted: 28 February 2006 at 10:03pm
	Yes.. boys are bad.. stay away from us... nothing but trouble we are.... yes... CONTROL YOUR SELF! The hand shaking thing is incredibly irregular. Though if it works for the Germaphobes.. I guess it can work for somone who wants to avoid all contact with the opposite sex. Though to say "Its because of my Religion" I think is extreme. If you are so suseptible to hormonal wiles that a simple hand-shake may set you off, then there are other issues at stake first.. I am not saying Imitate the west or their customs or whatever.... But a Hand-shake is a common Greeting.. if not Universal.. But i guess what works for some.. may not work for Others.. or everyone.. to each his own eh? Edited by -ArabianKnight-
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truemuslim21 Newbie Joined: 12 April 2006 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 7	Posted: 13 April 2006 at 9:21pm
	salaam, i dont personally think its wrong to love other sex. u have eyes , u have feelings. don't you? but what is imprtant is that is u really in love or playing. i dont think so love is beautiful but not everyone realize it.
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truemuslim21 Newbie Joined: 12 April 2006 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 7	Posted: 13 April 2006 at 9:32pm
	is flirt and love same? i dont think so . why ppl think when u love someone then u are flriting. i dont agree with this totally . i love someone and i saw him year ago but there is something else, trust emotions feelings respect thats love.
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Amirul Newbie Joined: 19 May 2006 Location: Malaysia Online Status: Offline Posts: 16	Posted: 19 May 2006 at 6:42pm
	*Originally posted by aishag88* Wow I think thats kind of hard. I mean theres school, how you not look at another person of the opposite sex? any ideas? You can look at the other sex or talk with them but the thing you cant do is touch them or be alone with them.Thats haram.
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ak_m_f Senior Member Joined: 15 October 2005 Location: Canada Online Status: Offline Posts: 3274	Posted: 19 May 2006 at 8:32pm
	*Originally posted by aishag88* Wow I think thats kind of hard. I mean theres school, how you not look at another person of the opposite sex? any ideas? QUOTE] yea go and live under taliban Edited by ak_m_f
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herjihad Senior Member Joined: 26 January 2005 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 2473	Posted: 21 May 2006 at 10:32am
	*Originally posted by Amirul* *Originally posted by aishag88* Wow I think thats kind of hard. I mean theres school, how you not look at another person of the opposite sex? any ideas? You can look at the other sex or talk with them but the thing you cant do is touch them or be alone with them.Thats haram. *Bismillah,* Are you sure it's haram to be alone with someone? I know it is makruh because it could lead to sin, but are you sure just the act of sitting and talking in a room with someone of the opposite sex a sin?
	Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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