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akhtarnawaz
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Quote akhtarnawaz Replybullet Topic: Apni nazron ki hifazat kaise karein
    Posted: 12 May 2014 at 7:29pm
A/w,

Hope you are all good.

Islam me nazaron ki hafazat per bada zor diya gaya hai, per mai aise mahol me job karta hu ki gair muslim ladkiyon se milakat hoti hi rahti hai, aur unke zism to bas allah bachaye.

aise me kaise khud to bachaya jaye? kuch batayiye
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Quote Mahnoor Malik Replybullet Posted: 20 October 2014 at 5:20am
Brother That is one of the main issue right now. Issue is not we meet Non Muslim girls....Its our way of seeing... ....Try to offer 5 time prayer..Prayers take u away from all these problems.
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Quote honeto Replybullet Posted: 16 November 2014 at 3:20pm
Salam,
It is a very important topic, and often people do not want to admit this problem. No one want to give up what they enjoy doing, it is hard. But harder the struggle, the bigger the reward Allah promises. Almost every man has this problem. Allah has given us some tools to overcome it.
There are a combination of things that can help.
1-Offering your daily salat on time.
2-reminding yourself each time there is an attraction and turn away your vision.
3-Clear your mind of bad thoughts when looking at girls.
4-Often ask Allah's forgiveness and help.
5-If your job gives you more chance to be where you feel you don't want to be change you job or work, choose a task that does limits you contact with those who cause trouble in your mind.
6-control yourself.
If you are not married, get married.

For a believer this world is difficult, a prison.

May Allah help us all to stay away from what is sinful, Ameen.

Hasan

Edited by honeto - 16 November 2014 at 3:22pm
39:64 Proclaim: Is it some one other than God that you order me to worship, O you ignorant ones?"
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