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Quote NABA Replybullet Posted: 16 March 2014 at 9:13pm
Walecum As Salaam, Allah is most merciful n forgiving.it is good u hv repented, pray to Allah constantly and have taqwa in Sha Allah will solve ur problem bcoz Allah says if u fear Allah, Allah will provide help from unimaginable sources (ch 65 v 2-3).
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Quote abuayisha Replybullet Posted: 17 March 2014 at 7:48am
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... but my fear lies on the fact that if I don't tell my future husband beforehand that I am not a virgin, he will find out anyways. And this is what worries me and confuses me about my future actions....


How do you imagine he will find out without you telling him? And once you tell him, know that you will be subjected to a detailed deposition, which frankly speaking, is none of his business. It is a knowledge that does not benefit and only harms.
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Quote Sarh777 Replybullet Posted: 19 March 2014 at 12:04am
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How do you imagine he will find out without you telling him? And once you tell him, know that you will be subjected to a detailed deposition, which frankly speaking, is none of his business. It is a knowledge that does not benefit and only harms.


This sounds graphic and my apologies.. but my hymen is not there, which means I will not bleed anymore the first time it happens with my husband.... what do I do then? Lie about my hymen?
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Quote abuayisha Replybullet Posted: 20 March 2014 at 9:18pm
Educate yourself regarding the hymen and bleeding. Once you have done this you will know that won't be an issue. He will never know you're not a virgin unless you unwisely volunteer this information.
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Quote NABA Replybullet Posted: 03 April 2014 at 1:08am
Assalamalecum,I think u shud tell ur husband, bcoz one day or the other he will know.have faith in Allah n tell ur husband the truth.
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