Walaikumsalaam:

Thanks for asking. OK physically but spiritually I am threadbare!
I am not sure how should I put all the details down that have happened since I went into hybernation of sorts. One may call it st**idity, naïveté, bad luck, or just a plain victim of being too trusting of our so called brothers/sisters that my wife became friends with at the mosque.

Simply put I am just coasting at the moment after weathering a major financial storm created by her friends through a Ponzi like scheme, wiping off a major portion of my savings for retirement. I hope to recover mentally in due time after the litigations are over with but spiritually is another matter altogether. Then trusting my wife about the things in future, even when thought of divorce keeps popping in my head but being a new grand pa dials it back. She wouldn't let me verify her friends undertakings till it was too late bc they were her Muslim sisters.