Check out this site brothers and sisters www.islam.forumwise.com its truely amazing, they have private forums for sisters and brothers, no public can have access to these forums unless the members of the forum apply for access - so you can just imagine how private these forums are, anyway they have an ONLINE COUNSELLING FORUM where their imam is at hand to answer any questions which you may have.

so try it out, the design of the forum is also nice!

thankyou it as been furthur updated and now has a ptal and a reputation system where members can know have controls that allow them to "applaud" or "smite" other members which affects the target member's Karma score (this is similar to reputation score). This is a unique implementation of Karma aka Reputation!