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    Posted: 17 January 2013 at 12:42am
Assalamalaikum my deeni brothers n sisters
I am a girl aged 29 yrs, average looks,well educated n frm a very good family alhamdulillah. my problem is that, since 3 yrs my parents are looking out alliance for me but none is getting finalised. people come to see me, if the parents are OK with me, the guy rejects it and if d guy however strongly wants to marry me,his parents dont agree. some thing or the other happens n m left hopeless again. Also, few months back, i was engaged to one guy who was a very pious person as i knew him n who ever knew him told the same thing abt him n praised a lot abt him. i felt really so happy n thought myself as so lucky fr having got him. but then again, his mom n sisters played spoiled sport by going greedy abt dowry etc n they acted really weird that my parents had to break it finally although the guy was too honest and flawless n i liked him a lot.
       please any one help me knw d cause fr my not getting married. is there any effect of magic or bad omen/spirits plz tell me the remedy i'l b really thankful
Jazakallah
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Quote semar Replybullet Posted: 17 January 2013 at 7:40pm
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Pray to Allah, be patient, try the best, insha Allah you Allah will give you the best mate for you. No black magic or anything.
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Quote proud2bmuslim Replybullet Posted: 17 January 2013 at 9:37pm
walaikumassalam,
Hope what u said is true, thanx. even i never thought of black magic etc, but after repeated failures i felt so.
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Quote Chrysalis Replybullet Posted: 27 January 2013 at 8:27pm
Why don't you try your luck at www.halfourdeen.com ? I know a couple of friends who have tried this, and the people there are decent and no funny business goes in. You could also involve your parents in this.

Also sister, keep in mind that Allah Knows best what is good for you and what is in store for you! Be optimistic and have good hopes from Allah.

If your mother could to marry you off to your Prince Charming today, wouldn't she jump at the chance? Keep in mind that Allah (swt) loves us 70 times more than our mothers!!!! Is that not reassuring?

While you wait for Allah to unfold your life, keep in mind that whatever He is Doing is the best for you in His Divine Wisdom. Meanwhile, enjoy your singlehood, enjoy your parents and take care of them. They will not be with us for long.

A Muslim never loses hope!
"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."
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