I personally think that if a person calls himself religious then he is really in denial.... I am a aware that my thinking could be wrong as well.

 

Agree with most of it - well said. However I have a problem with 'man has a right to call himself anything he wants'. The problem is not with 'calling' oneself something/anything -rather the choices one makes according to this presumption in treating others.

 

When we call ourselves religions, many a times we end up treating others with a snob, an aura or supiriority etc. We dont have a right to do that.

 

I think one who calls himself by an adjective, also thinks himself to possess those qualities - and then treats others using that his yardstick. Pharoah called himself God ... he did many things because of this belief, including atrocities on his people.

 

One who has a tendency of controlling others, not sure what he would call himself but certainly he gives himself the right to do so - and in all truth he does not have this right.

 

I dont think people have a right to call themselves whatever they like and then go about infringing others' personal space ... point to ponder.

 

Lady's post reminded me of a thaught - being religions and believing in God is not a quality we have despite of God, rather a gift from Him. There are people who genuinly want to understand God, His religion, His laws, and find harmony within themselves with it - yet they are unable to find peace.  Its not like we read a few books, understand a certain set of logics - do some thinking in a particular direction and the result is we are godfearing religious beings - it does not happen that way. There is no specific formula for acquiering religiosity unless God tends His attention, mercy, favor and aid.

 

Just a thaught.

 

 

 

I still think that one can not call himself religious unless God,HIMSELF revealed that to him.    A person who is religious tries to practice the deen as much as he can with the best of his ability and at the same time commits very few sins.  This person makes the conscience decision in everything he does to go more than beyond the basics of what is required to be a muslim or nonmuslim practicing another faith.  Can we say this about ourselves?  NO.  As a muslim, I can not make the mistake of saying that I know I am going to Jinnah unless Allah has revealed this to me.   So how can we say that we are religious?  Yes we can say that there are steps we must practice that will help us get there.
So to say that you are religious to me seems like you are in denial of the kind of person you really are.  I am not saying that this can not be revealed to you by Allah.

I am not bothered that people say this about themselves, but when they do, I always wonder why they think so.