Assalaamoalaikum Nausheen.  I wanted to respond to your last comment two days ago but I have been really busy with working.  Anyway, I am disappointed in you.  You should know that when you quote someone you should make sure that you give them credit for it.  

Now this is what you left out: 

 

quotation-> "I know a woman is a man's responsibility in Islam. I also know that a woman can earn money and keep it to herself.

I know that she does not have to work at home if her husbad can afford for domestic help.

I also know that islamically she is not obliged to contribute to the daily expenditure.

 

Now I m asking you all is there a wiggle room out of this so I can make my wife work at home, and pay bills from her salary.

 

Im not saying I deny she does not have to do this, but am asking is there an islamic way in which I can make her do what i want because I am finding it hard to live by those islamic rules which are so much in her favor and against my pocket and my bank balance !

 

Im just asking this and now you guys tell me you reject me as a muslim!

 

You guys know nothing about islam, showing me ayat, I already know (but do not want to pay heed to) which do not suit my situation, and then tell me Im wrong? "<- quotation

 

written by Munnim