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please i need help, i have been living with my husband for 6 years now, 3 weeks ago he told me, he did not do nikah with me and it was all a lie,
i have ask him what we did when he took me to the mosque in Islamabad
6 years ago, but he will not answer me, he has now left me and gone to live with a friend. Will ALLAH forgive me for this sin, i dont know if im married or not, my husband will not answer my questions.
what is the sin for living with some one when it was all a lie

Edited by zaramarie - 05 February 2012 at 6:01am

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zaramarie Starter Joined: 05 February 2012 Online Status: Offline Posts: 6	Topic: i need help Posted: 05 February 2012 at 4:12am
	please i need help, i have been living with my husband for 6 years now, 3 weeks ago he told me, he did not do nikah with me and it was all a lie, i have ask him what we did when he took me to the mosque in Islamabad 6 years ago, but he will not answer me, he has now left me and gone to live with a friend. Will ALLAH forgive me for this sin, i dont know if im married or not, my husband will not answer my questions. what is the sin for living with some one when it was all a lie Edited by zaramarie - 05 February 2012 at 6:01am
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abuayisha Senior Member Joined: 05 October 1999 Online Status: Offline Posts: 3997	Posted: 05 February 2012 at 7:30pm
	Zaramarie are you able to speak to those at the mosque where the marriage took place? A marriage is simply an offer and acceptance, that is witnessed and your wali present for your representation. There should also have been an agreed upon mahr. Was there something that caused this strange behavior from your husband? Do you have a father or brother who can make the necessary inquiries on your behalf? You may want to also seek legal redress, as this may indeed be a penal code violation in Islamabad.
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zaramarie Starter Joined: 05 February 2012 Online Status: Offline Posts: 6	Posted: 06 February 2012 at 1:51am
	the marriage took place in Islamabad,i am from united kingdom. no i dont have any family in pakistan. I did not know we were doing nikah until we came out of the mosque and my husband told me he has just married me, i was so shocked because my husband done nikah with my daugter 1 year before.i thougt i was having prayers done because i became muslim. so i worked hard to bring him to england, which i did 3 years ago.from then he started meeting up with other people from his vilage in pakistan, they have been living here for some years.Then he started to change badly. there is just to much to tell you about. this is a very long story about what happened. Edited by zaramarie - 06 February 2012 at 1:53am
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Dayem Senior Member Joined: 23 August 2005 Online Status: Offline Posts: 520	Posted: 06 February 2012 at 7:28am
	*Originally posted by zaramarie* Will ALLAH forgive me for this sin, i dont know if im married or not, my husband will not answer my questions.what is the sin for living with some one when it was all a lie You are a VICTIM here, there is no sin for being a victim. On the contrary you need to seek immediate legal assistance, as abuayisha above said. Edited by Dayem - 06 February 2012 at 7:29am
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iec786 Senior Member Joined: 06 February 2012 Online Status: Offline Posts: 282	Posted: 06 February 2012 at 12:38pm
	I did not know we were doing nikah until we came out of the mosque and my husband told me he has just married me, i was so shocked because my husband done nikah with my daugter 1 year before.i thougt i was having prayers done because i became muslim. so i worked hard to bring him to england, which i did 3 years ago In Islam you cannot be married to the Daughter and to the Mother.It was Haraam for him to do this to you.What you should do is go to an Imam where you live and get a fatwa from him.Good luck sister.allcolour Edited by iec786 - 06 February 2012 at 12:40pm
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abuayisha Senior Member Joined: 05 October 1999 Online Status: Offline Posts: 3997	Posted: 06 February 2012 at 5:29pm
	How were you able to bring him to the UK?
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zaramarie Starter Joined: 05 February 2012 Online Status: Offline Posts: 6	Posted: 06 February 2012 at 11:31pm
	i work and sent all the documents he needed for a settlement visa he was refused 4 times but he got it in the end, his visa was for 2 years,then he reapplied and it was extended for another 3 years, i should tell you that my Daughter is my stepdaughter not blood related. Edited by zaramarie - 06 February 2012 at 11:36pm
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Hayfa Female Islam Senior Member Joined: 07 June 2005 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 2370	Posted: 10 February 2012 at 3:01pm
	no sister, I don't think you committed a "sin" id you were deceived into a real or fake marriage. Do you think dear sister, he used you to get a visa? My duas for you... Hayfa
	When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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