Active TopicsActive Topics  Display List of Forum MembersMemberlist  CalendarCalendar  Search The ForumSearch  HelpHelp
  RegisterRegister  LoginLogin  Old ForumOld Forum  Twitter  Facebook
Advertisement:
         

Groups Women (Sisters)
 IslamiCity Forum - Islamic Discussion Forum : Culture & Community : Groups Women (Sisters)
Message Icon Topic: i have a question Post Reply Post New Topic
<< Prev Page  of 3 Next >>
Author Message
whoknow?
Female Islam
Starter
Starter
Avatar

Joined: 10 August 2011
Location: United Kingdom
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 7
Quote whoknow? Replybullet Posted: 16 August 2011 at 9:34pm
salam,

thank you sisters so much for the truth, and for the support. i talked to my lawyer yesterday and she says that my next court date i might be able to get a permanent parenting order, and the kids can stay with me this is a huge step for me, we have been going to court since may, and man those judges are so harsh, i really thought i would loose the kids, and so did he but with the grace of allah, i might not have to worry about custody anymore
IP IP Logged
travel2hajj
 
Starter
Starter


Joined: 17 August 2011
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 1
Quote travel2hajj Replybullet Posted: 17 August 2011 at 4:09am
i think there's no question of going back to your husband..you cant say that now he will treat you in a better way..


Edited by travel2hajj - 17 August 2011 at 4:12am
IP IP Logged
Hayfa
Female  Islam
Senior Member
Senior  Member
Avatar

Joined: 07 June 2005
Location: United States
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 2370
Quote Hayfa Replybullet Posted: 18 August 2011 at 1:48am
Salaam Sister,

Please keep us posted!

My Allah keep you and your children well.

Hayfa
When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
IP IP Logged
seeja
Female Islam
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 28 October 2010
Location: India
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 111
Quote seeja Replybullet Posted: 31 October 2011 at 6:09am

Salam Sisters

I really have doubt about step-sibling marriage is forbidden or not.

I thing children from different parents can be married as per the Islamic law

Please confirm.

Islam (Total Surrender, Submission, Obedience, Sincerity and Peace with Allah) is for all people, in all places and in all times
IP IP Logged
whoknow?
Female Islam
Starter
Starter
Avatar

Joined: 10 August 2011
Location: United Kingdom
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 7
Quote whoknow? Replybullet Posted: 04 December 2011 at 8:36pm
salamz everyone,

we have resolved the custody, woohoo!!

so, i get primary care(this isn't full custody) and he gets a lot of time with the kids.

i have to say it is very frustrating but i am so happy that part is done and over, we just have a few more things to take care of then we are done.

thank god!!

there was a woman who asked if i could go back try again, i did an assessment when i went into the shelter, one of them was a danger assessment. the conclusion was that he would have eventually would have killed me. he was leading down that road. my abuse assessment was the abuse was ongoing and serious, it was getting worse as the years went by. i believe that speaks for itself.
IP IP Logged
Wardah
 
Newbie
Newbie
Avatar

Joined: 16 October 2011
Location: Canada
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 19
Quote Wardah Replybullet Posted: 20 December 2011 at 8:26am
Waslam sister

You are right sister siblings from different parents mean both of them are different, these kind of siblings are na-mehram for each other and they can marry. Only the siblings from same parents and the sibling where mothers are same but fathers are different or fathers are same but mothers are different are mehram to each other and they can not marry withe each other. Here I give you an example when a woman with kids from her ex-husband marry to a man with kids from his ex=wife than, those children are ne-mahram for each other and they can marry, because they from tow different parents not the father niether the mother is same. So, it is better to not call them "siblings" cuz they are not "blood realtives" to each other in any way. Plus please read Al-Nissa from Quran it would help.
IP IP Logged
Hayfa
Female  Islam
Senior Member
Senior  Member
Avatar

Joined: 07 June 2005
Location: United States
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 2370
Quote Hayfa Replybullet Posted: 23 December 2011 at 8:22pm
Salaams Sister,

I am glad it seems to be resolving for you in a positive manner.

My duas for you and your family.

Hayfa
When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
IP IP Logged
whoknow?
Female Islam
Starter
Starter
Avatar

Joined: 10 August 2011
Location: United Kingdom
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 7
Quote whoknow? Replybullet Posted: 24 December 2011 at 10:02am
really?? that means i can only marry a man who has no children. i have both a girl and boy, so it's not as if it would be easy to marry a man who only has a girl(s) or only a boy(s). or wait till they grow up and then be happy with a man. i'm not saying that i want to marry right this moment, but in the future it would be something i would like to do.

thanx sister, despite a few arguments things have been fairly amicable.
IP IP Logged
<< Prev Page  of 3 Next >>
Post Reply Post New Topic
Printable version Printable version

Forum Jump
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot create polls in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum

Disclaimer:
The opinions expressed herein contain positions and viewpoints that are not necessarily those of IslamiCity. This forum is offered to stimulate dialogue and discussion in our continuing mission of being an educational organization.
If there is any issue with any of the postings please email to icforum at islamicity.com or if you are a forum's member you can use the report button.

Note: The 99 names of Allah avatars are courtesy of www.arthafez.com

Advertisement:



Sponsored by:
Islamicity Membership Program:
IslamiCity Donation Program  http://www.islamicity.com/Donate
IslamiCity Arabic eLearning http://www.islamiCity.com/ArabAcademy
Complete Domain & Hosting Solutions www.icDomain.com
Home for Muslim Tunes www.icTunes.com
Islamic Video Collections www.islamiTV.com
IslamiCity Marriage Site www.icMarriage.com