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Quote rudy Replybullet Posted: 20 October 2005 at 5:09am

Its plain stupidly mother of hypocrisy to convert to another religion for the sake of love 2 please your mate - 

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Quote Fiza Replybullet Posted: 28 October 2005 at 6:34am

Sister Marie,

Being in love is the best thing that can happen to a human being but changing religion is a very big decision not just for yourself but it affects your life style and your family members.Most importantly think this matter through throughly because this is a major step in your life.I realise that when you love someone you will do anything for them but if you want to change your religion (my personal belief) than do it for the love of Allah then for the love of your boyfriend.Just imagine if something ever happened to your boyfriend then you might think that you converting to islam was for nothing and soon it will be a mistake which is the biggest gift their is in islam to be a muslim.Please think carefully before making decisions. Fe'aman Allah



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Quote herjihad Replybullet Posted: 29 October 2005 at 4:05am

Bismillah, (In the name of Allah, God),

Marie, You are asking if people will accept you.  Some will and some won't.  The important people may be his family.  Who in his family are important to him, and will they accept you?  Some families are cruel to their daughters-in-law even if they are girls from their own village or families.  Maybe they think it's their job to test them this way.

Some will be kind when they see you showing respect to them and not "stealing" their son.  But showing respect is different for different families.  It is a long, complicated topic which you must learn about through time.  Maybe if you research his culture and not just his religion you will be more succesful in achieving your goals.

And will your family accept him and his family?  Do you need them to? 

Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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Quote deenadict Replybullet Posted: 12 November 2005 at 11:34pm

Sister,herjihad

What you said is right.

May Allah Guide Our Steps to Him.
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Quote deenadict Replybullet Posted: 14 November 2005 at 5:13am

Assalam alaikum All

Sister Fiza

Good Job. MAy Allah guide me, MArie, you and those who read our participations.

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Quote aishag88 Replybullet Posted: 17 November 2005 at 12:16pm
 There are many people who are not born muslims, I'm sure there will be people who accept you. Like otheres said, some will and some wont. Insha'Allah you will meet poeple who do

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