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beautiful
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Joined: 07 March 2011 Location: Bangladesh Online Status: Offline Posts: 1 |
![]() Topic: lovePosted: 07 March 2011 at 1:11am |
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2 of my frnds love each other(boy & girl),they no its sin.but they couldnt control them.they dont hav any physical relation,but they kissed each other & did a lot of thing which is not permitted in Islam.d girl wanna hav a legal relation which is accepted in Islam.but d boy is still a student & there is possibility that his family will not allow him 2 marry right now as he is not that much grown up & the girl is older than him by 9 months.my question is that should they marry each other?but their family would not permit.what should they do.they hav guilty feeling but they r helpless.d girl doesnt wanna keep relation with d boy,but the boy is in frustration,she doesnt wanna giv him pain
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anonymous70
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Joined: 20 April 2011 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 4 |
![]() Posted: 03 May 2011 at 12:13pm |
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Well the best advice I could give you ,your friends should say goodbye to each other.Have no relationship at all no matter how hard it seems.If its naseeb itll happen no matter how hard it seems or if no one wants it to.Maybe this is the shatan playing their minds tell them not to speak or have any interaction together cause they might not marry each other and if they had interactions and they wont marry theyll regret it the rest of their lives.So tell them itll be whether they talk or not and its best they dont talk.Theyll ruin their reputations and hurt themselves and their familys.They have to look at the big picture the future.And whats haram just tell them give it a break dont let them speak cause this is just gonna get worst for both of them.And inshallah allah knows best no matter what outcome tell them to pray ask allahs forgiveness and guidance and whatever happens is the best.Tell them not to use their hearts cause when they do that there blind and they dont see they just see passion and all of that nonsense but they have to use their minds and step back .I hope i helped inshallah everything will be fine for them goodluck.
I have experience through this I wish I would of listened to my family ,so I know what there going through,and tell them your family has more knowledge then they do.There young and theres plenty of fish in the sea if there family doesnt want then theres no point in talking anyways.I have been through it all and I would suggest stop and pray read quran and everything will be fine .
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asheque
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Joined: 17 August 2011 Online Status: Offline Posts: 93 |
![]() Posted: 26 February 2012 at 11:12pm |
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Every thing will be fine.If they really love each other they have to
believe in God.God will help them.Look for those that Allah do. |
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NABA
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Joined: 13 December 2012 Location: India Online Status: Offline Posts: 107 |
![]() Posted: 30 April 2013 at 8:37am |
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According to me this is truly non sense.because this thing is the root of so many haraam things,in this case patience counts.as zakir naik rightly says-love before wedding(lbw)is not right.it is better to love the girl U marry than to marry the girl U love.Allah says in Surah Al Baqarah ch 2 v 216-U may like a thing which is not good for U,U may hate a thing which is good for U,but Allah knows what is right for you.
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