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syedsohailmd
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Quote syedsohailmd Replybullet Topic: advice needed
    Posted: 17 November 2010 at 11:18pm
Assalaalaikum,
I am in need of enlightment pls.
I have  been married for the past  24 years and alhamdulillah have had 3 children. Suddenly, for the past 3 years, for some unknown reason my wife stopped  having any conjugal relations with me. She is physically healthy and on several attempts she gives one lame(to me @ least) excuse or the other. 
Please  advice(as per islamic practice) would  should I do?
Jazak,
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Quote The absurd one Replybullet Posted: 05 December 2010 at 7:45am
Ask her why?
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Quote Nausheen Replybullet Posted: 19 December 2010 at 7:34pm
Bismillah,
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullah,
 
If your wife is approaching her menopause years, that could be the reason. Its a time of several changes within a woman.
Perhaps it would be good for you as a couple to learn more about the subject and deal with the issue as a couple.
 
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Shafaa un wa rahmatun lil mo'mineena
wa la yaziduzzalimeena illa khasara.
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Quote asheque Replybullet Posted: 04 April 2012 at 12:22am
Family matte solve with the family members.It will be beneficial
for you.If you really need the advice than say the real age of both first
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Quote asheque Replybullet Posted: 04 April 2012 at 12:23am
I will try to help you.I am not a married person but can say
something emotional which may effect on her
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