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Quote Divya_Mohammed Replybullet Topic: Sex while being pregnant
    Posted: 16 July 2010 at 7:51am
Assalam Alaikum,
 
I am a new Muslim convert (Earlier I was a Hindu Iyer Brahmin Girl ) for the last 3 months and I am married to a Muslim Man. I am married to him for last 14 months.
 
I am blessed in being pregnant now with twins in my womb and my husband insists for sex each day even now. In my earlier religion it is forbidden to have sex while being pregnant.
 
As a pregnant Muslima now, is it Halal or Haram to accept sex when my husband desires. I am scared whether Allah will curse me and my Muslim family and my muslim children growing within me, if I agree to my husbands sexual advances.
 
If it is my Islamic duty to accept sex from my Muslim husband, I will gladly accept and cooperate with him to enjoy every moment of sex and also give him maximum sexual satisfaction.
 
Thanks to Allah, that in Islam, I realise that the Glorious Muslim Way of Life provides a definitive answers to all questions that arise in human mind.
 
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Quote semar Replybullet Posted: 16 July 2010 at 3:34pm
Assalamu alaikum,
 
Congratulation for the pregnacy. Yes, you can have sex, why not. You and your husband no need to "fast' for the whole 9-10 months because you are pregnant. The only things that you can not to have sex Islamically is when you still have disharge (bleeding) after you deliver the baby. If I am not mistaken, usually about 30-40 days, after you are "clean" again you can start your regular activity. Enjoy!!


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Quote Hayfa Replybullet Posted: 16 July 2010 at 5:13pm
Salaams,

Yes check with your doctor.. for every woman's pregnancy is different. Your health is what is important.

And sister, as a Muslim we do not believe that Allah would "curse" your child based upon a decision you made.  We do not believe that someone else pays for the sins of another.  You very well not have sex and a medical problem will arise.  And IF something is not "perfect" to think God would curse them really thinks ill of God.
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Quote muslima1 Replybullet Posted: 16 July 2010 at 11:18pm
Salam Sister,

Congratulations on your pregnancy. As mentioned above, you can have sex with your husband throughout your pregnancy. Now there are some specific sexual activities that are not recommended by doctors, I am not sure if I can write them here, so I would consult your doctor so they give you the specifics or maybe check online.
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Quote fais Replybullet Posted: 16 July 2010 at 11:21pm

Dear sister,

I am happy that you have accepted islam with full heart as most women just accept for their husband sake,

there are few things still left in your mind from your previous relegion,get rid of this,like not eating beef and a long list.
 
when mohammed s.a.w wowed not have honey as it smelled bad to one of his wife on this allah reavealed one ayat translation do not make halal thing haram on you.plz forgive as not exact words from quran but hope u know what i m saying.
 
It is not good to say no to your husband without any good medical reason,if u not medically fit then obiously u have the excuse and husband should not insist but if there is nothing then its a duty of the wife to please her husband denying to which will get curse from angels whole night if the husband does not forgive.
 
You are a new muslim and i want you to take this possitively the rules of islam,you do your own reasearch if want as i am not alim but accept it if this there in islam.
 
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dear all correct me if i am wrong
 
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Quote Divya_Mohammed Replybullet Posted: 17 July 2010 at 7:01am
Assalam Alaikum,
 
I thank all the people who have encouraged and enhanced my faith in Islamic thought, which is so meaningful at philosophical and practical level.
 
I am in week-14 second trimester of pregnancy and doctor told me that I am healthy and and my two babies are also healthy and I should take lot pf proteins. I am eating lot of meat  beef and fruits vegetables etc.
 
I will consult doctor also as advised and if she also clears I will not have any worry about having sex with my husband which I feel is a great duty to every muslim woman.
 
All Praise to Allah always.
 
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Quote fais Replybullet Posted: 17 July 2010 at 8:00am

Thnx sister,

thnx for taking the comments positively,may your children become the blessing for the umma,BIL BARQA

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Quote Angel Replybullet Posted: 17 July 2010 at 9:43pm
enjoy!
 
I have to say some positivity around the place! its great to see. Smile
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