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   I was wondering if anyone can give ther opinion on this situation, I know about what Allah says about relationships, but I was simply wondering on others opinions from people who are muslims and believe in Allah.I have been seeing a guy for nearly 7 months now and we really care about each other. However, I am chritian and he is muslim which means his parents are unaware of us being together. I can't just end the relationship just because we are from different religions; you can't help who you fall in love with. However, I do feel guilty knowing he shoudn't be with me?

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Trigger Starter Joined: 12 July 2010 Online Status: Offline Posts: 3	Topic: Love Posted: 12 July 2010 at 6:18am
	I was wondering if anyone can give ther opinion on this situation, I know about what Allah says about relationships, but I was simply wondering on others opinions from people who are muslims and believe in Allah.I have been seeing a guy for nearly 7 months now and we really care about each other. However, I am chritian and he is muslim which means his parents are unaware of us being together. I can't just end the relationship just because we are from different religions; you can't help who you fall in love with. However, I do feel guilty knowing he shoudn't be with me?
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semar Senior Member Senior Member Joined: 11 March 2005 Online Status: Offline Posts: 1234	Posted: 12 July 2010 at 7:47pm
	Salam/Peace, A muslim man can marry a Christian woman. It's OK. So you no need to worry.
	Salam/Peace, Semar The Prophet said: "Do not eat before you are hungry, and stop eating before you are full" "1/3 of your stomach for food 1/3 for water, 1/3 for air"
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martha Senior Member Joined: 30 October 2007 Online Status: Offline Posts: 1141	Posted: 13 July 2010 at 10:11am
	Yes, it is true that a muslim man can marry a Christian woman. BUt really, should a muslim man be having a sexual relationship outside marriage? Afraid to say the answer is no.
	some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set
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Trigger Starter Joined: 12 July 2010 Online Status: Offline Posts: 3	Posted: 13 July 2010 at 4:20pm
	Thankyou, for both of your answers I didnt realise he could be with a christian girl... I know he shouldn't have a sexual relationship but I am not making him, and if he said to me he didn't want too then I would respect that. But thankyou all for being honest.
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martha Senior Member Joined: 30 October 2007 Online Status: Offline Posts: 1141	Posted: 14 July 2010 at 1:25am
	You're most welcome Trigger. I hope it works out for you. Just one more pointer for you. A good muslim man will not have sex before marriage. So ask yourself if he is respecting you at all. Sex outside of marriage for muslim men does happen a lot, and many non-muslim girls are left hurt when the man marries a virgin muslim girl. Just be aware of that. Take care of yourself. ANd trust your instincts and keep enquiring her or from other reliable sources. Hugs xx
	some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set
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Trigger Starter Joined: 12 July 2010 Online Status: Offline Posts: 3	Posted: 14 July 2010 at 10:27am
	Awhh thankyou, I wasn't expecting everyone to be as understanding about the situation Yeh I understand about the sex thing, and I do get confused about that because he does keep to most of the other practices like ramadan and he's really strict with that....Thanks for the pointer I am aware of that, but I think i'm just going to enjoy being with him and see what happens in the future because he really does look after meeven when i'm stroppy hehe Thankyou again I hope you understand I do appreciate this. x
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