well in my opinion ur hubby is in a great relegious dilema,try to understand him and plan your future properly.do good planning,try to earn extra.

my sugestion since u r a u.s citzen,migrate to gulf country like qatar or saudi arabia as u.s citizen earn a very handsome salary and good previlages plus you dont have taxes so save money there also.my mnay friends working in saudi went to canada and came back with canadian passport and now they well off,your husband speaks arabi so he also has good chance to prosper.give it a thought.