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Akhe Abdullah
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Posted: 27 November 2008 at 5:15am

[QUOTE=sharonjundi] Hello again,

Thank you so much for your kindness. I feel like I need
a lot of prayer at this time and I will always pray for
ALLAH to make me stronger everyday and that you will continue to pray for me and my husband at this time.
I need the strength from ALLAH more than ever in my life.
I will pray that things will be ok for me now. I will
try to live my life like ALLAH wants me to and that someday I will be a stronger person and live my life,
either with my husband or by myself.
Please continue to pray for me.

Thank you so much for being their for me lately.

May ALLAH bless us and keep us all safe and stronger each day of our lives.

Sharon [/QUOTE As salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.As always its good to hear from you.I will continue to pray for you and your family.Enjoy your dinner with them today.I am very blessed to have the oppurtunity to be there for you.I may have to limit what I say (Inshallah).May Allah guide your hearts and minds,Open your eyes and let you see eachother for the first time.(Ameen).May Allah except our intentions.(Ameen.)

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Posted: 27 November 2008 at 5:45am

Thank you and may you have a blessed day. Enjoy the
thanksgiving today.
May ALLAH bless us today and have a wonderful fulfilled
day in his presence.

Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 27 November 2008 at 5:45am

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Posted: 28 November 2008 at 7:05am

Originally posted by sharonjundi

Thank you and may you have a blessed day. Enjoy the
thanksgiving today.
May ALLAH bless us today and have a wonderful fulfilled
day in his presence.

Sharon

As salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.(Ahamduillah)Your welcome.(Ameen)I pray that it went well.

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Posted: 28 November 2008 at 1:50pm

I had a good day for Thanksgiving. My husband came over
and ate lunch with me and the boys. I told him earlier
not to come over, and to go and enjoy lunch with him brother and their family. But he chose to come to the
house and eat. I still have mixed feelings on what he
is doing. I pray that he had good intentions on coming
over. He never talks about our relationship. I am
still so confused on his actions lately. Thank you
for all your prayers. I pray ALLAH will still help
me and I hope and pray soon I will receive an answer
on what will happen between my husband and I.

Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 28 November 2008 at 1:51pm

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Posted: 28 November 2008 at 6:36pm

Asalam Akaikum Sharon,

I just read this thread and my Duas are with you. It is hard to go through these struggles. They are our test. And those who are most devoted get strongly tested!

Ultimately.. seek to be closer to you Creator. The ONE to whom you shall return. These tests can be hard. Seek Al Wadood.. the Loving One.

When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi

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Posted: 29 November 2008 at 5:13am

Originally posted by sharonjundi

I had a good day for Thanksgiving. My husband came over
and ate lunch with me and the boys. I told him earlier
not to come over, and to go and enjoy lunch with him brother and their family. But he chose to come to the
house and eat. I still have mixed feelings on what he
is doing. I pray that he had good intentions on coming
over. He never talks about our relationship. I am
still so confused on his actions lately. Thank you
for all your prayers. I pray ALLAH will still help
me and I hope and pray soon I will receive an answer
on what will happen between my husband and I.

Sharon

As Salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.(Ahamduillah)You had a good day (Ahamduillah)You had a bad day.Never loose Faith in Allah and you will grow stronger for man will let you down puting your faith in them.Stay focus if its Allahs (SWT)will it will be.

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Posted: 29 November 2008 at 5:18am

Originally posted by Hayfa

Asalam Akaikum Sharon,

I just read this thread and my Duas are with you. It is hard to go through these struggles. They are our test. And those who are most devoted get strongly tested!

Ultimately.. seek to be closer to you Creator. The ONE to whom you shall return. These tests can be hard. Seek Al Wadood.. the Loving One.

As salaamulaikum Hayfa.Jazakallah Khair for your reply she needs the encouragement.May Allah bless us all and countinue to give us good intentions in our hearts.(Ameen)

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Posted: 01 December 2008 at 3:14pm

I want to thank you for your prayers and support. I have
had a better weekend. Now, today I am asking my husband
what his intentions are in our relationship... It has
been over 4 months since our seperation. I need to know
what he wants, but I do not feel like it is his decision only to ask for a divorce. Is that correct?
Should it be both of our decisions, or can he make the
decision by himself. I am tired and stressed out over
what he is doing. I do not want this to become a divorce
but what can I do? It seems like he wants to make all
the decisions now. Please tell me is this correct, or
can I dispute it.
I pray to ALLAH for more guidance and let him decide what
is the right thing to do.

Please pray for me and thank you for being so kind and
replying back to me.

ALLAH bless us all and keep us strong and safe in our
lives.

Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 01 December 2008 at 3:14pm

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Akhe Abdullah Male Islam Senior Member Joined: 19 November 2008 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 1252	Posted: 27 November 2008 at 5:15am
	[QUOTE=sharonjundi] Hello again, Thank you so much for your kindness. I feel like I need a lot of prayer at this time and I will always pray for ALLAH to make me stronger everyday and that you will continue to pray for me and my husband at this time. I need the strength from ALLAH more than ever in my life. I will pray that things will be ok for me now. I will try to live my life like ALLAH wants me to and that someday I will be a stronger person and live my life, either with my husband or by myself. Please continue to pray for me. Thank you so much for being their for me lately. May ALLAH bless us and keep us all safe and stronger each day of our lives. Sharon [/QUOTE As salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.As always its good to hear from you.I will continue to pray for you and your family.Enjoy your dinner with them today.I am very blessed to have the oppurtunity to be there for you.I may have to limit what I say (Inshallah).May Allah guide your hearts and minds,Open your eyes and let you see eachother for the first time.(Ameen).May Allah except our intentions.(Ameen.)
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sharonjundi Newbie Joined: 03 November 2008 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 34	Posted: 27 November 2008 at 5:45am
	Thank you and may you have a blessed day. Enjoy the thanksgiving today. May ALLAH bless us today and have a wonderful fulfilled day in his presence. Sharon Edited by sharonjundi - 27 November 2008 at 5:45am
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Akhe Abdullah Male Islam Senior Member Joined: 19 November 2008 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 1252	Posted: 28 November 2008 at 7:05am
	*Originally posted by sharonjundi* Thank you and may you have a blessed day. Enjoy the thanksgiving today. May ALLAH bless us today and have a wonderful fulfilled day in his presence. Sharon As salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.(Ahamduillah)Your welcome.(Ameen)I pray that it went well.
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sharonjundi Newbie Joined: 03 November 2008 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 34	Posted: 28 November 2008 at 1:50pm
	I had a good day for Thanksgiving. My husband came over and ate lunch with me and the boys. I told him earlier not to come over, and to go and enjoy lunch with him brother and their family. But he chose to come to the house and eat. I still have mixed feelings on what he is doing. I pray that he had good intentions on coming over. He never talks about our relationship. I am still so confused on his actions lately. Thank you for all your prayers. I pray ALLAH will still help me and I hope and pray soon I will receive an answer on what will happen between my husband and I. Sharon Edited by sharonjundi - 28 November 2008 at 1:51pm
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Hayfa Female Islam Senior Member Joined: 07 June 2005 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 2370	Posted: 28 November 2008 at 6:36pm
	Asalam Akaikum Sharon, I just read this thread and my Duas are with you. It is hard to go through these struggles. They are our test. And those who are most devoted get strongly tested! Ultimately.. seek to be closer to you Creator. The ONE to whom you shall return. These tests can be hard. Seek Al Wadood.. the Loving One.
	When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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Akhe Abdullah Male Islam Senior Member Joined: 19 November 2008 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 1252	Posted: 29 November 2008 at 5:13am
	*Originally posted by sharonjundi* I had a good day for Thanksgiving. My husband came over and ate lunch with me and the boys. I told him earlier not to come over, and to go and enjoy lunch with him brother and their family. But he chose to come to the house and eat. I still have mixed feelings on what he is doing. I pray that he had good intentions on coming over. He never talks about our relationship. I am still so confused on his actions lately. Thank you for all your prayers. I pray ALLAH will still help me and I hope and pray soon I will receive an answer on what will happen between my husband and I. Sharon As Salaamulaikum Sister Sharon Jundi.(Ahamduillah)You had a good day (Ahamduillah)You had a bad day.Never loose Faith in Allah and you will grow stronger for man will let you down puting your faith in them.Stay focus if its Allahs (SWT)will it will be.
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Akhe Abdullah Male Islam Senior Member Joined: 19 November 2008 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 1252	Posted: 29 November 2008 at 5:18am
	*Originally posted by Hayfa* Asalam Akaikum Sharon, I just read this thread and my Duas are with you. It is hard to go through these struggles. They are our test. And those who are most devoted get strongly tested! Ultimately.. seek to be closer to you Creator. The ONE to whom you shall return. These tests can be hard. Seek Al Wadood.. the Loving One. As salaamulaikum Hayfa.Jazakallah Khair for your reply she needs the encouragement.May Allah bless us all and countinue to give us good intentions in our hearts.(Ameen)
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sharonjundi Newbie Joined: 03 November 2008 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 34	Posted: 01 December 2008 at 3:14pm
	I want to thank you for your prayers and support. I have had a better weekend. Now, today I am asking my husband what his intentions are in our relationship... It has been over 4 months since our seperation. I need to know what he wants, but I do not feel like it is his decision only to ask for a divorce. Is that correct? Should it be both of our decisions, or can he make the decision by himself. I am tired and stressed out over what he is doing. I do not want this to become a divorce but what can I do? It seems like he wants to make all the decisions now. Please tell me is this correct, or can I dispute it. I pray to ALLAH for more guidance and let him decide what is the right thing to do. Please pray for me and thank you for being so kind and replying back to me. ALLAH bless us all and keep us strong and safe in our lives. Sharon Edited by sharonjundi - 01 December 2008 at 3:14pm
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