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Quote Gabriela Replybullet Posted: 16 September 2008 at 6:27pm

You are righ, there are man who impose repressive attitude on woman but that is against the Islam. In contrast with Pauls teachings in Corintians, In our religion, we know that Allah made us equal. And we are all equaly responsible for our sins and equaly rewarded for our good deeds. Allah ordered modesty and lowering the gaze for both.

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Quote Ron Webb Replybullet Posted: 16 September 2008 at 7:28pm
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I'll like to know what do you guys think about it. from both nonmuslims and muslims
 
I think the skirt is a bit short for a Muslim country, though that might just be how the girls in the picture are wearing it.  Otherwise there's nothing "sexy" about it.
 
I think modesty is culturally relative.  Women should dress modestly according to local standards, which would mean very different things in different regions.
 
I would be interested if anyone has any statistics or other information about whether wearing hijab in a Western country actually makes women safer and less likely to be sexually harassed or attacked.  I suspect not -- it draws attention to them, and it's probably a "kink" for a great many perverts.  It seems to me that it would be better just to blend into the crowd.  But I could be wrong.
 
(And for the record, I'm not Muslim.)
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Quote Hayfa Replybullet Posted: 17 September 2008 at 1:26pm
I do not think the dress code has much to do with safety...
 
As far as assaults that happen, easily 66% of attacks against women are committed by someone they know.. it has to do with opportunity.
 
Now for other cases they did research on people in prison and showed them clips of women walking and what would "inspire" them to assault a woman. Some main points are:
1. not walking with a confident, athletic gait
2. are you distracted-talking on phone, etc
3. are you walking naturally, not awkwardly
4. how aware you appear of your surroundings
5. are you acting scared or afraid
6. if you show lmitiations-high heels, tight clothes may be one, or carrying bags is another.
 
No where in all the research my Director and teacher has done, having taught self-defense for over 40 years does say, not covering one's hair cause men to attack.
 
Crimes are often a product of opportunity.


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Quote Israfil Replybullet Posted: 17 September 2008 at 7:51pm
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I do not think the dress code has much to do with safety...
 
As far as assaults that happen, easily 66% of attacks against women are committed by someone they know.. it has to do with opportunity.
 
Now for other cases they did research on people in prison and showed them clips of women walking and what would "inspire" them to assault a woman. Some main points are:
1. not walking with a confident, athletic gait
2. are you distracted-talking on phone, etc
3. are you walking naturally, not awkwardly
4. how aware you appear of your surroundings
5. are you acting scared or afraid
6. if you show lmitiations-high heels, tight clothes may be one, or carrying bags bags is another.
 
No where in all the research my Director and teacher hsa done having taught self-defense for over 40 years does say, not covering one's hair cause men to attack.
 
Crimes are often a product of opportunity.
 
Good post Hayfa. I have to concur with the above.
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Quote Miechel Replybullet Posted: 24 October 2008 at 5:39am
Sexy school uniform is not good for student..It encouraged for rape...



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Quote Shasta'sAunt Replybullet Posted: 27 October 2008 at 10:42am

According to RAINN

Every two minutes a woman is sexually assaulted in the U.S.
 
73% of the victims knew their attacker
 
15% of the victims were under the age of 12, nearly 30% between the ages of 5 and 7
 
There is nothing sexually alluring about a 5 year old child. Rape is a crime of violence and opportunity, not sexual attraction.
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