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Quote Gibbs Replybullet Posted: 12 July 2010 at 8:22am
SignReader ya'll still talking about spanking the monkey?
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Quote HouseDoctor Replybullet Posted: 11 October 2010 at 8:00am
An interesting discussion.
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Quote Revolution777 Replybullet Posted: 22 November 2010 at 12:27pm
Mastrubation Is a Sin (Haram) if :

*It Hurts your Own Body. I think it does, like Reducing the Quality of Smen.
*It Weaken your Iman. And it Does, Masturbating Will makes you Desire women even more, You'd be wrong if you thought it Calm down your Desire...So i guess Forget about it.

i don't don't see why you need to masturbate Since One in a while God made us so we can have a wet dream (Istihlam) which would let us Have a virtual Sex activity and Also Freeing the Old Produced Smen.
Masturbating wasn't needed before Cause everyone Married at a young age (except slaves, Because of their misery they don't think much about that).
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Quote John Mohammad Replybullet Posted: 30 December 2010 at 6:38pm
My personal take on the issue- and don't ask me to back it up with proofs  or any documentation, for I have none.

To put it in perspective, consider how the Jews regard masturbation: it is a sin because the act of sex is a) a gift from God, and b) meant for procreation. In their view, 'spilling one's seed on the ground' i.e., masturbation, does not fall under either of these categories, and is frowned upon as it is a waste of semen with regard to procreation.

Now, on the other hand, we already know under our laws masturbation is permitted- even recommended- under certain conditions, but is always subject to the ideal of self-control. If you are unmarried and have no outlet (or married and your wife- or husband, for that matter- is unwilling or incapable of performing) and you just can't stand it to the point of distraction, go ahead and get it out of your system and drive on. Just don't make it regular or habitual and thank Allah(swt) for the gift of release and ask for guidance in the future. The last thing you want during prayers is to have misdirected thoughts breaking your concentration, so the sooner you take care of the problem, the less chance you have of messing up during prayers or in other daily activities.

This ties into the role of the partner as well- each partner must understand the others' needs and be ready to satisfy those when asked. If your wife asks you for sex, by all means take care of her- the same applies to wives. If your husband comes to you, take care of him as well. Even if you're not particularly 'in the mood', your partner certainly is and it's a loving thing to take care of their needs like that. In the most happy circumstances, both will want it and both will be satisfied and all will be well.

Note, too, that this conditional allowance for masturbation is not meant to include looking at pornography on the internet or movies or magazines or whatnot- those are covered quite clearly under other rules of behavior. If you're that much in need, you shouldn't need those things to take care of yourself in short order- by creating the need or desire to look at pornography in order to masturbate, you have only proved you are not in that much need to begin with.

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Quote Gibbs Replybullet Posted: 09 February 2011 at 6:44am
Masturbation is bad because it hurts your body? Who came up with that dumb advice?
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Quote pure_columbian Replybullet Posted: 10 February 2011 at 2:52am
Gibbs, i suppose it could hurt your body if you were driving at the same time or using some kind of power tool LOL
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Quote pure_columbian Replybullet Posted: 10 February 2011 at 2:58am
Originally posted by abosait

Originally posted by Nabil

...........So how can we quite it now because its temptating to control..............
6) Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation.

 
 
Msturbation makes you blind???????? really????? Can't be true or most teenagers would be walking around with the aid of a white stick. Big%20smile
 
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Quote abosait Replybullet Posted: 28 February 2011 at 7:54pm
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... Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation.


Msturbation makes you blind???????? really????? Can't be true or most teenagers would be walking around with the aid of a white stick. [IMG]http://www.islamicity.com/forum/smileys/smiley4.gif" height="17" width="17" align="absmiddle" alt="Big%20smile" />


Is a weak eyesight the same as blindness?

Edited by abosait - 28 February 2011 at 8:00pm
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