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abuayisha

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Posted: 04 November 2009 at 9:16am

Yes, yes. "Then which of the favours of your Lord will you deny?" Surah Al Rahman 55

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Posted: 06 November 2009 at 10:10pm

SALAM,

pray for me all,even i want a good wife now,who will be like hurul ain.

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Posted: 07 November 2009 at 4:46am

Nur: your husband likes to vacuum... mashallah

May all women be so blessed to have a husband who helps out.

When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi

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Posted: 07 November 2009 at 6:34am

Yes, it would be a blessing. As a fair number of men live in cloud cuckoo land I doubt they even know what a vacuum cleaner is, lol. In some places even some women don't have a clue either, and are left to sweep their way through life.

Certainly women don't generally get appreciated for the home-work they do day in day out. ANd if wages were paid to each woman for the 24/7 care of the home and children then they would be SO wealthy, lol.

some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set

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Posted: 07 November 2009 at 7:08am

This is no doubt a sweeping generalization, but I once visited West Africa and if Africa is the origin of man, it is also the genesis of lazy men. Everywhere you look women are working, carry water, selling, washing, sweeping, and men are lounging, sitting, sleeping or drinking tea.

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Posted: 07 November 2009 at 8:16am

Abuay -'This is no doubt a sweeping generalization'

Abuay-'if Africa is the origin of man, it is also the genesis of lazy men. Everywhere you look women are working, carry water, selling, washing, sweeping, and men are lounging, sitting, sleeping or drinking tea'

Nice one bro!

some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set

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Posted: 07 November 2009 at 4:24pm

Originally posted by Hayfa

Nur: your husband likes to vacuum... mashallah

May all women be so blessed to have a husband who helps out.

I believe all human beings have their own speciality, strengths and weaknesses.

My husband loves the vacuum cleaner but at the same time he does not know how to cook. While my own brother loves to cook and always help his wife in the kitchen.

I have my own weaknesses, cooking is not my speciality. But where the education of my children is concerned, I take charge, while my husband leave that to me.

We husbands and wives should not compete but to complement each other. It will strengthen our marriage and of course giving and taking is a must in any marriage.

Ilahi Anta Maksudi, Wa Redhaka Mathlubi - Oh Allah, You are my destination, Your Pleasure is my Intention.

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Posted: 08 November 2009 at 8:54am

Abuyisha, very true indeed. LOL. And at the same time they have babies on their backs while doing those things.I mean the women...............

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abuayisha Senior Member Joined: 05 October 1999 Online Status: Offline Posts: 3997	Posted: 04 November 2009 at 9:16am
	Yes, yes. "Then which of the favours of your Lord will you deny?" Surah Al Rahman 55
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fais Senior Member Joined: 24 August 2009 Location: Oman Online Status: Offline Posts: 281	Posted: 06 November 2009 at 10:10pm
	SALAM, pray for me all,even i want a good wife now,who will be like hurul ain.
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Hayfa Female Islam Senior Member Joined: 07 June 2005 Location: United States Online Status: Offline Posts: 2370	Posted: 07 November 2009 at 4:46am
	Nur: your husband likes to vacuum... mashallah May all women be so blessed to have a husband who helps out.
	When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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martha Senior Member Joined: 30 October 2007 Online Status: Offline Posts: 1141	Posted: 07 November 2009 at 6:34am
	Yes, it would be a blessing. As a fair number of men live in cloud cuckoo land I doubt they even know what a vacuum cleaner is, lol. In some places even some women don't have a clue either, and are left to sweep their way through life. Certainly women don't generally get appreciated for the home-work they do day in day out. ANd if wages were paid to each woman for the 24/7 care of the home and children then they would be SO wealthy, lol.
	some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set
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abuayisha Senior Member Joined: 05 October 1999 Online Status: Offline Posts: 3997	Posted: 07 November 2009 at 7:08am
	This is no doubt a sweeping generalization, but I once visited West Africa and if Africa is the origin of man, it is also the genesis of lazy men. Everywhere you look women are working, carry water, selling, washing, sweeping, and men are lounging, sitting, sleeping or drinking tea.
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martha Senior Member Joined: 30 October 2007 Online Status: Offline Posts: 1141	Posted: 07 November 2009 at 8:16am
	Abuay -'This is no doubt a sweeping generalization' Abuay-'if Africa is the origin of man, it is also the genesis of lazy men. Everywhere you look women are working, carry water, selling, washing, sweeping, and men are lounging, sitting, sleeping or drinking tea' Nice one bro!
	some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set
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Nur_Ilahi Senior Member Joined: 19 January 2008 Online Status: Offline Posts: 1031	Posted: 07 November 2009 at 4:24pm
	*Originally posted by Hayfa* Nur: your husband likes to vacuum... mashallah May all women be so blessed to have a husband who helps out. I believe all human beings have their own speciality, strengths and weaknesses. My husband loves the vacuum cleaner but at the same time he does not know how to cook. While my own brother loves to cook and always help his wife in the kitchen. I have my own weaknesses, cooking is not my speciality. But where the education of my children is concerned, I take charge, while my husband leave that to me. We husbands and wives should not compete but to complement each other. It will strengthen our marriage and of course giving and taking is a must in any marriage.
	Ilahi Anta Maksudi, Wa Redhaka Mathlubi - Oh Allah, You are my destination, Your Pleasure is my Intention.
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Allah First Female Islam Starter Joined: 09 September 2009 Location: Canada Online Status: Offline Posts: 11	Posted: 08 November 2009 at 8:54am
	Abuyisha, very true indeed. LOL. And at the same time they have babies on their backs while doing those things.I mean the women...............
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