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Quote martha Replybullet Posted: 29 October 2009 at 11:34am
oh...the hammer drill gives me a headache! lol. All quiet now in my female enviromental friendly homeLOL Only have kitty  and he's a cutey.
some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set
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Quote Hayfa Replybullet Posted: 29 October 2009 at 3:37pm
man!  I do hate the sound of the vacuum cleaner.

Me too.. can you sweep??? LOL
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Quote abuayisha Replybullet Posted: 29 October 2009 at 9:45pm
Are you kidding!?  I do it all. I didn't have sisters growing up.
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Quote Hayfa Replybullet Posted: 30 October 2009 at 11:57am
Your potential is expanding Abuayisha... LOL
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Quote Nur_Ilahi Replybullet Posted: 03 November 2009 at 5:53am
Originally posted by abuayisha

man!  I do hate the sound of the vacuum cleaner.


Oh Thank God, my husband loves the vacuum cleaner.

I had been married for nearly 25 years. Both of us are working. I am lucky when my children were small, I was working in 3 shifts. 2 days on and 2 days off. Only during weekdays when I was working, we would be sending our children to the babysitter. In other words, our children always have at least 1 parent at home.

Knowing that we both are working, my husband was very helpful. Weekend, vacuuming and mopping the floor is his favourite household jobs. All nooks and corners will not be spared. And when my children were still using the bottles, once they were asleep at night, he would be collecting all the bottles and washed and boiled them. And if I worked night shift, he would be looking after both of them and early morning sending them to the babysitter.

I think I am very lucky to have a husband like him, even though educationally, I have a more advantage over him. But over the years, he is earning more than me now.

But whatever it is the most important is our mission is to submit to the will of Allah, together we join hands to bring our family to one destination.

InshaAllah.
Ilahi Anta Maksudi, Wa Redhaka Mathlubi - Oh Allah, You are my destination, Your Pleasure is my Intention.
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Quote Ali77 Replybullet Posted: 03 November 2009 at 5:54am
ALSALAM ALYCM. I donot marred yet but by this advices and notes I have been willing to marry and I ask my God to give me good wife which respect her hasbund and keep her house and
afread from God then I be very happy and make every
thing to let she happy and satisfied.thank you
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Quote abuayisha Replybullet Posted: 03 November 2009 at 9:18pm
Masha'Allah, very nice...good man.  Allah bless you both with good in this life and the next - saving us all from the fire.
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Quote Nur_Ilahi Replybullet Posted: 04 November 2009 at 4:28am
Alhamdulillah.

Ameen.

I hope you too have a good family that would make you proud not only in this world, but the next too.

InshaAllah.


Edited by Nur_Ilahi - 04 November 2009 at 4:30am
Ilahi Anta Maksudi, Wa Redhaka Mathlubi - Oh Allah, You are my destination, Your Pleasure is my Intention.
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