Salaamu Alaykum, Sister,

I understand how you feel.  But on one hand you say you want unity, but on the other you want to leave and not work things out.  We aren't going to agree on much, but if we stop talking, we'll agree on even less.  It'll just be quieter.

I think we should emphasize things that we agree on.  Let's work to decrease poverty and stop humiliation of women as a weapon in war.

Let's work on getting women who have been thus harmed respect, dignity and love from people to show that they perpertrators do not have the power they thought if the families continue to love each other.  Allah, The Loving, already has that in control.  

You're worried about issues.  I'm worried about all that this world has taken from my children and continues to throw at them with little or no help from Muslims while they are being attacked for being believers.

Maybe you could just reevaluate your stances or emphases?

Salaamu Alaykum

As Salamu Alaikum  Sister

Thanks for the response, I have already reconsidered and have started posting.

I also worry about the children of the world…..being childless, does not mean I don’t care about them.

The way I look at it we cannot help women or the poor unless we start implementing Allah’s Law according to the Glorious Qur'an and Sunnah.

Our goals are not different but the path we take is………..if we become better practising Muslims ourselves, unite as an Ummah we are creating the best atmosphere for our children to grow up in and our families to live in.

May Allah protect our children, guide us and keep us on the Siratul-Mustaqeem. Ameen!

Wa Alaikum Salam