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Subject: love
Posted: 30 April 2013 at 8:37am

According to me this is truly non sense.because this thing is the root of so many haraam things,in this case patience counts.as zakir naik rightly says-love before wedding(lbw)is not right.it is better to love the girl U marry than to marry the girl U love.Allah says in Surah Al Baqarah ch 2 v 216-U may like a thing which is not good for U,U may hate a thing which is good for U,but Allah knows what is right for you.

Edited by NABA - 30 April 2013 at 8:38am]]> Tue, 30 Apr 2013 08:37:43 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18836&PID=175771#175771 Groups – Youth : Adultery is a big sin : Understand how it starts http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22890&PID=175750#175750 Author: NABA
Subject: Adultery is a big sin : Understand how it starts
Posted: 29 April 2013 at 8:52am

If someone memorises Qur'an through numbers,then most of the problem can b solved for eg in Surah Al Israa ch 17 v 32-Allah forbids adultery,Surah An Noor ch 24 v 2-Allah orders severe punishment for this sin,Surah An Noor ch 24 v 3-Allah forbids pure or virgin individuals not to marry those who R involved in this sin]]> Mon, 29 Apr 2013 08:52:56 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22890&PID=175750#175750 Groups – Youth : Are you holding yourself back? http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24398&PID=170829#170829 Author: locsolutions
Subject: Are you holding yourself back?
Posted: 28 November 2012 at 5:47pm

Recently I realized myself and generally a lot of others in the world are holding themselves back from being successful in life, so I wrote this article to help those who are currently experiencing difficulties and are going through hard times. Please consider this my 2nd of many motivational posts on this forum. Thank you!

Everything that happens to us happens in purpose. And sometimes, one thing leads to another. Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self improvement and success.

I remember watching Patch Adams – its my favorite movie, actually. Its one great film that will help you improve yourself. Hunter “patch” Adams is a medical student who failed to make it through the board exams. After months of suffering in melancholy, depression and suicidal attempts – he decided to seek for medical attention and voluntarily admitted himself in a psychiatric ward.  His months of stay in the hospital led him to meeting different kinds of people. Sick people in that matter. He met a catatonic, a mentally retarded, a schizophrenic and so on. Patch found ways of treating his own ailment and finally realized he has to get back on track. He woke up one morning realizing that after all the failure and pains he has gone through, he still want to become the a doctor. He carries with himself a positive attitude that brought him self improvement and success. He didn’t only improved himself, but also the life of the people around him and the quality of life. Did he succeed? Needless to say, he became the best damn doctor his country has ever known.

So, when does self improvement become synonymous with success? Where do we start? Take these tips, friends…
*Stop thinking and feeling as if you’re a failure, because you’re not. How can others accept you if YOU can’t accept YOU?

*When you see hunks and models on TV, think more on self improvement, not self pitying. Self acceptance is not just about having nice slender legs, or great abs. Concentrate on inner beauty.

*When people feel so down and low about themselves, help them move up. Don’t go down with them. They’ll pull you down further and both of you will end up feeling inferior.

*The world is a large room for lessons, not mistakes. Don’t feel st**id and doomed forever just because you failed on a science quiz. There’s always a next time. Make rooms for self improvement.

*Take things one at a time. You don’t  expect black sheep’s to be goody-two-shoes in just a snap of a finger. Self improvement is a one day at a time process.

*Self improvement results to inner stability, personality development and dig this …. SUCCESS. It comes from self confidence, self appreciation and self esteem.

* Set meaningful and achievable goals. Self improvement doesn’t turn you to be the exact replica of Cameron Diaz or Ralph Fiennes. It hopes and aims to result to an improved and better YOU.

*Little things mean BIG to other people. Sometimes, we don’t realize that the little things that we do like a pat on the back, saying “hi” or “hello”, greeting someone “good day” or telling Mr. Smith something like “hey, I love your tie!” are simple things that mean so much to other people. When we’re being appreciative about beautiful things around us and other people, we also become beautiful to them.

*When you’re willing to accept change and go through the process of self improvement, it doesn’t mean that everyone else is. The world is a place where people of different values and attitude hang out. Sometimes, even if you think you and your best friend always like to do the same thing together at the same time, she would most likely decline an invitation for self improvement.

We should always remember that there’s no such thing as ‘over night success’. Its always a wonderful feeling to hold on to the things that you already have now, realizing that those are just one of the things you once wished for. A very nice quote says that “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.”  We are all here to learn our lessons. Our parents, school teachers, friends, colleagues, officemates, neighbors… they are our teachers. When we open our doors for self improvement, we increase our chances to head to the road of success.





]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2012 17:47:03 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24398&PID=170829#170829 Groups – Youth : Girly boy http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12579&PID=166191#166191 Author: candy sunny
Subject: Girly boy
Posted: 02 August 2012 at 1:03am

So long articles here.]]> Thu, 02 Aug 2012 01:03:14 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12579&PID=166191#166191 Groups – Youth : Assalamu Alaikum... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23374&PID=164898#164898 Author: icforumadmin
Subject: Assalamu Alaikum...
Posted: 24 June 2012 at 10:32am

Wa alaikum salam Yaseera, welcome to IC Forum.
 
Admin
]]> Sun, 24 Jun 2012 10:32:02 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23374&PID=164898#164898 Groups – Youth : Assalamu Alaikum... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23374&PID=164896#164896 Author: Yaseera
Subject: Assalamu Alaikum...
Posted: 24 June 2012 at 7:52am

Assalamu Alaikum to all my brothers, sister, and friends....

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Subject: Quran vs mobile!
Posted: 15 June 2012 at 1:09pm

yes absolutelythis is the period of technology ...]]> Fri, 15 Jun 2012 13:09:54 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23195&PID=164721#164721 Groups – Youth : Quran vs mobile! http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23195&PID=164720#164720 Author: Lost soul
Subject: Quran vs mobile!
Posted: 15 June 2012 at 1:05pm

jazakAllah... u told me 1 of the gud solution....]]> Fri, 15 Jun 2012 13:05:47 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23195&PID=164720#164720 Groups – Youth : Quran vs mobile! http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23195&PID=164715#164715 Author: Caringheart
Subject: Quran vs mobile!
Posted: 15 June 2012 at 12:12pm

Originally posted by abuayisha

I have seen some youth reading Qur'an contained on their mobile in the masjid.


This is true sometimes technology is used for good.  I know that it has helped my knowledge of God's Word to grow. Smile
]]> Fri, 15 Jun 2012 12:12:50 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23195&PID=164715#164715 Groups – Youth : Quran vs mobile! http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23195&PID=164714#164714 Author: abuayisha
Subject: Quran vs mobile!
Posted: 15 June 2012 at 11:43am

I have seen some youth reading Qur'an contained on their mobile in the masjid.  We start with ourselves being an example for others, then our families, friends and encouraging posts such as yours; to remind us the Qur'an will be a proof for or against us on the Day of Judgment.  Khair insha'Allah!]]> Fri, 15 Jun 2012 11:43:31 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23195&PID=164714#164714