IslamiCity Forum - Islamic Discussion Forum : Groups – Youth http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum This is an XML content feed of; IslamiCity Forum - Islamic Discussion Forum : Groups – Youth : Last 10 Posts Wed, 19 Jun 2013 02:01:09 +0000 Tue, 28 May 2013 07:35:04 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 8.04 30 www.IslamiCity.com/forum/RSS_topic_feed.asp?FID=19 IslamiCity Forum - Islamic Discussion Forum http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_images/ICForum_Logo.gif http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum Groups – Youth : Taqwa and Internet users http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16766&PID=176233#176233 Author: AL BASAIR MEDIA
Subject: Taqwa and Internet users
Posted: 28 May 2013 at 7:35am

MA-SHA-ALLAH.an important & benificial thread. jajakallah Khayr.]]> Tue, 28 May 2013 07:35:04 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16766&PID=176233#176233 Groups – Youth : Your opinion please . . . on a critical issue http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17282&PID=176232#176232 Author: AL BASAIR MEDIA
Subject: Your opinion please . . . on a critical issue
Posted: 28 May 2013 at 7:33am

Without proper understanding of deen (obviously,Hidayah is great factor), it's not impossible to fall into fitnah.

You tell that "who’ve had a very proper religious upbringing". Let me tell something about this.

From my experience (in my short life), i hear some people think that the family of Abu saleh (just example) is really religious but in practical,when i compare them with the Quran-Sunnah, find them they're just maintain some rules from Quran, and some rules from jahel society.They maintain hijab, also maintain freemixing. But their "fan" dont see it as un-islamic, because for them,this is enough islamic. I know some people who's family considered islamic (actually not), one of them also studied madrasha, but i he miss the salat and tell lies without any hezitation.

One of the fact is, parents practice islam, but they dont know about islamic parenting. islamic parenting is not like that parents teach them "recitation" of quran (without understanding) and let their children mixed with "unvarified" children. culture of the society play a big role on children. if parents dont care what culture entering into their children's mind beside islam, than it'a also become a big issue for misguiding of them. Personally, i know a Hafiz,who is now misguided because of his friend. i also heard about a hafiz, who died while he was enjoing porn.

SUBHAN-ALLAH. islamic parenting is not a minor issue.Every parent's should study broadly on islamic parenting, it's duty of them. it's not enough to just teach about islam. they should obviously remember that we are living in a era, where jahiliyyat is widespreading.

Here i give you the link of an article on Islamic parenting.Other links you'll find after going to the link below.

THE RESPONSIBILITY OF PARENTING]]> Tue, 28 May 2013 07:33:28 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=17282&PID=176232#176232 Groups – Youth : Masturbation and porn http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19072&PID=176231#176231 Author: AL BASAIR MEDIA
Subject: Masturbation and porn
Posted: 28 May 2013 at 7:01am

The most important thing you do as muslim that i think, recite Quran, try to understand it with authentic tafsir,deep thinking on it, act upon what you read. ALLAH says in the Quran that Quran is the Shifa (healer) for the believers.And obviously,ask ALLAH to help you,ALLAH is the best friend.

Edited by AL BASAIR MEDIA - 28 May 2013 at 7:02am]]> Tue, 28 May 2013 07:01:22 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19072&PID=176231#176231 Groups – Youth : Adultery is a big sin : Understand how it starts http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22890&PID=176230#176230 Author: AL BASAIR MEDIA
Subject: Adultery is a big sin : Understand how it starts
Posted: 28 May 2013 at 6:53am

MA-SHA-ALLAH, good post.
"O mankind, eat from whatever is on earth [that is] lawful and good and do not follow the footsteps of Satan. Indeed, he is to you a clear enemy.

He (shaytan) only orders you to evil and immorality and to say about Allah what you do not know." (Sura Baqara, 2 : 168-169)

"O you who have believed, enter into Islam completely [and perfectly] and do not follow the footsteps of Satan. Indeed, he is to you a clear enemy." (Sura Baqara, 2 : 208)
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Subject: love
Posted: 30 April 2013 at 8:37am

According to me this is truly non sense.because this thing is the root of so many haraam things,in this case patience counts.as zakir naik rightly says-love before wedding(lbw)is not right.it is better to love the girl U marry than to marry the girl U love.Allah says in Surah Al Baqarah ch 2 v 216-U may like a thing which is not good for U,U may hate a thing which is good for U,but Allah knows what is right for you.

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Subject: Adultery is a big sin : Understand how it starts
Posted: 29 April 2013 at 8:52am

If someone memorises Qur'an through numbers,then most of the problem can b solved for eg in Surah Al Israa ch 17 v 32-Allah forbids adultery,Surah An Noor ch 24 v 2-Allah orders severe punishment for this sin,Surah An Noor ch 24 v 3-Allah forbids pure or virgin individuals not to marry those who R involved in this sin]]> Mon, 29 Apr 2013 08:52:56 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22890&PID=175750#175750 Groups – Youth : Are you holding yourself back? http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24398&PID=170829#170829 Author: locsolutions
Subject: Are you holding yourself back?
Posted: 28 November 2012 at 5:47pm

Recently I realized myself and generally a lot of others in the world are holding themselves back from being successful in life, so I wrote this article to help those who are currently experiencing difficulties and are going through hard times. Please consider this my 2nd of many motivational posts on this forum. Thank you!

Everything that happens to us happens in purpose. And sometimes, one thing leads to another. Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self improvement and success.

I remember watching Patch Adams – its my favorite movie, actually. Its one great film that will help you improve yourself. Hunter “patch” Adams is a medical student who failed to make it through the board exams. After months of suffering in melancholy, depression and suicidal attempts – he decided to seek for medical attention and voluntarily admitted himself in a psychiatric ward.  His months of stay in the hospital led him to meeting different kinds of people. Sick people in that matter. He met a catatonic, a mentally retarded, a schizophrenic and so on. Patch found ways of treating his own ailment and finally realized he has to get back on track. He woke up one morning realizing that after all the failure and pains he has gone through, he still want to become the a doctor. He carries with himself a positive attitude that brought him self improvement and success. He didn’t only improved himself, but also the life of the people around him and the quality of life. Did he succeed? Needless to say, he became the best damn doctor his country has ever known.

So, when does self improvement become synonymous with success? Where do we start? Take these tips, friends…
*Stop thinking and feeling as if you’re a failure, because you’re not. How can others accept you if YOU can’t accept YOU?

*When you see hunks and models on TV, think more on self improvement, not self pitying. Self acceptance is not just about having nice slender legs, or great abs. Concentrate on inner beauty.

*When people feel so down and low about themselves, help them move up. Don’t go down with them. They’ll pull you down further and both of you will end up feeling inferior.

*The world is a large room for lessons, not mistakes. Don’t feel st**id and doomed forever just because you failed on a science quiz. There’s always a next time. Make rooms for self improvement.

*Take things one at a time. You don’t  expect black sheep’s to be goody-two-shoes in just a snap of a finger. Self improvement is a one day at a time process.

*Self improvement results to inner stability, personality development and dig this …. SUCCESS. It comes from self confidence, self appreciation and self esteem.

* Set meaningful and achievable goals. Self improvement doesn’t turn you to be the exact replica of Cameron Diaz or Ralph Fiennes. It hopes and aims to result to an improved and better YOU.

*Little things mean BIG to other people. Sometimes, we don’t realize that the little things that we do like a pat on the back, saying “hi” or “hello”, greeting someone “good day” or telling Mr. Smith something like “hey, I love your tie!” are simple things that mean so much to other people. When we’re being appreciative about beautiful things around us and other people, we also become beautiful to them.

*When you’re willing to accept change and go through the process of self improvement, it doesn’t mean that everyone else is. The world is a place where people of different values and attitude hang out. Sometimes, even if you think you and your best friend always like to do the same thing together at the same time, she would most likely decline an invitation for self improvement.

We should always remember that there’s no such thing as ‘over night success’. Its always a wonderful feeling to hold on to the things that you already have now, realizing that those are just one of the things you once wished for. A very nice quote says that “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.”  We are all here to learn our lessons. Our parents, school teachers, friends, colleagues, officemates, neighbors… they are our teachers. When we open our doors for self improvement, we increase our chances to head to the road of success.





]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2012 17:47:03 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24398&PID=170829#170829 Groups – Youth : Girly boy http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12579&PID=166191#166191 Author: candy sunny
Subject: Girly boy
Posted: 02 August 2012 at 1:03am

So long articles here.]]> Thu, 02 Aug 2012 01:03:14 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12579&PID=166191#166191 Groups – Youth : Assalamu Alaikum... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23374&PID=164898#164898 Author: icforumadmin
Subject: Assalamu Alaikum...
Posted: 24 June 2012 at 10:32am

Wa alaikum salam Yaseera, welcome to IC Forum.
 
Admin
]]> Sun, 24 Jun 2012 10:32:02 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23374&PID=164898#164898 Groups – Youth : Assalamu Alaikum... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23374&PID=164896#164896 Author: Yaseera
Subject: Assalamu Alaikum...
Posted: 24 June 2012 at 7:52am

Assalamu Alaikum to all my brothers, sister, and friends....

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