IslamiCity Forum - Islamic Discussion Forum : Whats correct decision? http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum This is an XML content feed of; IslamiCity Forum - Islamic Discussion Forum : Family Matter : Whats correct decision? Thu, 23 May 2013 01:00:52 +0000 Mon, 28 Jan 2013 01:48:49 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 8.04 360 www.IslamiCity.com/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=24524 IslamiCity Forum - Islamic Discussion Forum http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_images/ICForum_Logo.gif http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum Whats correct decision? : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LsqHqFN4Wk8... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=173418#173418 Author: Chrysalis
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Posted: 28 January 2013 at 1:48am

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LsqHqFN4Wk8]]> Mon, 28 Jan 2013 01:48:49 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=173418#173418 Whats correct decision? : Does your husband pay heed to... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=173410#173410 Author: Chrysalis
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Posted: 27 January 2013 at 8:36pm

Does your husband pay heed to religious advise? I remember watching a lecture by Mufti Ismail Menk in which he beautifully dealt with in-law problems. He strongly advised men to give their wives space from their in-laws. I will try to find that lecture for you inshAllah.

https://twitter.com/muftimenk/status/254455754537435138

Edited by Chrysalis - 27 January 2013 at 8:38pm]]> Sun, 27 Jan 2013 20:36:29 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=173410#173410 Whats correct decision? : Originally posted by NausheenA... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=172497#172497 Author: abuayisha
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Posted: 09 January 2013 at 8:30am

Originally posted by Nausheen

A husband is responsible for all needs of his wife, including mental peace.
 
"......including mental peace."   Wow! Now that's a tall order.
]]> Wed, 09 Jan 2013 08:30:13 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=172497#172497 Whats correct decision? : Originally posted by dreamsI... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=172493#172493 Author: XTREME
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Posted: 09 January 2013 at 6:54am

Originally posted by dreams

I am married since last 2 yrs. My husband is the only son with 3 married elder sisters who keep interfering & visiting regularly at my place.My father in law is ill. My mother in law abuses & expects me to do all the household chores, cook thrice a day & be ready for everyones service all the time. I am a working women. she doesn't give me importance in any thing.She keeps on taunting along with her daughters. they humiliated me right after 3 mnths of marraige. I've tried my best to win their hearts but regular interference puts all my efforts in vain. I had a fight with them and i was told to leave the house and all of them told us to stay seperately. but after all arrangements my husban backed out bcoz of their emotional drama. I am staying at my moms place for more than a month now. My husband is not ready to seperate and wants me to cum in that house again. What should i do ?
I dont want to live in that house again as i am vvv frustrated staying there due to behaviour of everyone towards me. I feel i am a servant in their house. I got no life of my own, no own space,no freedom.Plz help me.


Walaikum Assalam sister!

May Allah give them hidayah and protect your eman. Insha Allah there would be some way out. I pray for your better future family-life. Contact my Sheikh, Muhammad Ajmal

+92 315 5136887
+92 300 5136887
sahibzadaajmil1@gmail.com

He is a pious person masha Allah just tell him your situation, he would pray for you and all of your problems would be solved.

jazak Allah ]]> Wed, 09 Jan 2013 06:54:55 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=172493#172493 Whats correct decision? : A husband is responsible for all... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=172491#172491 Author: Nausheen
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Posted: 09 January 2013 at 6:13am

A husband is responsible for all needs of his wife, including mental peace.

Your needs are his duty and for him to provide with kindness.

Try to explain to your husband how mentally disturbing is the behavior of his family and that you are not asking to cut cords, rather to build a prosperous home for yourself and him which is free of unwanted interferences.

Persuade him with patience

Edited by Nausheen - 09 January 2013 at 6:14am]]> Wed, 09 Jan 2013 06:13:25 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=172491#172491 Whats correct decision? : I am married since last 2 yrs.... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=171904#171904 Author: dreams
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Posted: 24 December 2012 at 7:44am

I am married since last 2 yrs. My husband is the only son with 3 married elder sisters who keep interfering & visiting regularly at my place.My father in law is ill. My mother in law abuses & expects me to do all the household chores, cook thrice a day & be ready for everyones service all the time. I am a working women. she doesn't give me importance in any thing.She keeps on taunting along with her daughters. they humiliated me right after 3 mnths of marraige. I've tried my best to win their hearts but regular interference puts all my efforts in vain. I had a fight with them and i was told to leave the house and all of them told us to stay seperately. but after all arrangements my husban backed out bcoz of their emotional drama. I am staying at my moms place for more than a month now. My husband is not ready to seperate and wants me to cum in that house again. What should i do ?
I dont want to live in that house again as i am vvv frustrated staying there due to behaviour of everyone towards me. I feel i am a servant in their house. I got no life of my own, no own space,no freedom.Plz help me.]]> Mon, 24 Dec 2012 07:44:10 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24524&PID=171904#171904