IslamiCity Forum - Islamic Discussion Forum : 17/Marriage/Confused http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum This is an XML content feed of; IslamiCity Forum - Islamic Discussion Forum : Groups – Women (Sisters) : 17/Marriage/Confused Fri, 24 May 2013 09:26:20 +0000 Fri, 07 Dec 2012 16:45:07 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 8.04 360 www.IslamiCity.com/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=24417 IslamiCity Forum - Islamic Discussion Forum http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_images/ICForum_Logo.gif http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum 17/Marriage/Confused : Nausheen gives good advice. ... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24417&PID=171268#171268 Author: Caringheart
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Posted: 07 December 2012 at 4:45pm

Nausheen gives good advice.  Smile]]> Fri, 07 Dec 2012 16:45:07 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24417&PID=171268#171268 17/Marriage/Confused : Assalamu laikum wr. wb., You... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24417&PID=171250#171250 Author: semar
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Posted: 06 December 2012 at 10:26pm

Assalamu laikum wr. wb.,

You are still 17, keep busy with your study etc. See when you are 20 or 21, he might already disappear from your heart.


Edited by semar - 06 December 2012 at 10:27pm]]> Thu, 06 Dec 2012 22:26:35 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24417&PID=171250#171250 17/Marriage/Confused : BarakAllahu feeki. :) Edited by... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24417&PID=171242#171242 Author: Shezza
Subject: 24417
Posted: 06 December 2012 at 8:01pm

BarakAllahu feeki. :)


Edited by Shezza - 01 January 2013 at 11:04am]]> Thu, 06 Dec 2012 20:01:54 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24417&PID=171242#171242 17/Marriage/Confused : Bismillah, Walaikum assalam wa... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24417&PID=171097#171097 Author: Nausheen
Subject: 24417
Posted: 03 December 2012 at 8:27pm

Bismillah,
Walaikum assalam wa rahmatullah wa barkatuhu dear Sheeza,

If someone approaches with a proposal, who on the offset does not have any flaw, rather you tend to like his character, then the feelings you are experiencing are normal.

A man should have this quality of decision making. Since the Quran says that men are protectors of women, they should have a strong character to be able to lead, take initiatives, decide for the family etc. Its very important for the marriage institution to be successful. It does not appear from his behavior that he can make tough/serious decisions and then stick to them.

Your parents had done the right thing to close the door on him when he approached a third time.
Your feelings will go away in a while. Get busy with your life, your studies, job, friends etc, and try not force yourself to forget the incident - it will just fade away with passage of time.

wish you all the best.

fi aman Allah!
]]> Mon, 03 Dec 2012 20:27:15 +0000 http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24417&PID=171097#171097 17/Marriage/Confused : Assalamu alaykum, lovely Muslimahs! Edited... http://www.IslamiCity.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24417&PID=171058#171058 Author: Shezza
Subject: 24417
Posted: 03 December 2012 at 10:29am

Assalamu alaykum, lovely Muslimahs!


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