When covering the life of the Prophet Muhammad, one of the most debatable topics is that of the
age of his wife Aisha when the two married.
Her alleged young age has been used in smear
campaigns against the Prophet. The latest publication dealing with the topic is
"Jewel of Medina" by journalist Sherry Jones - a novel on the life of Aisha. This novel has stirred controversy over the topic, as US publisher Random House expressed its desire to postpone its publication out of fear that its content could spark violence.
Reports that Aisha bint Abi Bakr was 6 or 7 years old when she became
engaged and 10 when she married  have been the most basic factor in the formation of the view
regarding her age of marriage. Also, it should not be forgotten that factors such as similar practices
being quite widespread at the time and the physical development of children
becoming complete at an earlier age at that time also contributed to the dispersion of this view. For this reason, this subject was not made a current issue for discussion until very recently.
Orientalists who do not consider the conditions of the time period in which an action occurred and who examine Islam from
"outside" have made this a current issue. The Muslim world's reaction to this different stance has been mixed. While some have insisted that
Aisha's above-mentioned age at marriage is correct , others are of the opinion that Aisha was older . In this situation, where it is not always possible to maintain a balanced view, various approaches have developed as an answer to
Orientalists' claims, including those that choose to deny the reports or ignore the existence of other alternatives as a response to this view.
First of all, we should know that everyone is a child of the time they live in and therefore must be evaluated
according to the cultural context of the relevant time. There are certain values that form a
society's customs and when a society is evaluated, these values have to be taken into consideration. Otherwise, were we to attempt to evaluate historical events within
today's conditions, we should remember that we are fated to make mistakes.
It is known that during the period when Prophet Muhammad, peace and
blessings be upon him, existed, young girls were married at an early age  and that
age difference was not important in marriage . Especially in regards to young
girls, it should not be forgotten that there was social pressure for this, that they matured earlier due to climatic and
geographical conditions and that they were seen as goods that needed to grow in their
husband's house. Moreover, this is not a matter just related to girls; boys were also married at
ages 8, 9 and 10 and they became the head of a family at an age that is perceived as very
young today . Perhaps it is this culture that lies at the basis of this
issue's not having been questioned until recent times. Otherwise, it was impossible for a mentality that wanted to brew a storm in
regards to the
Prophet's marriage with Zaynab bint Jahsh and that slandered Aisha after her return from the Muraysi expedition to not criticize such an issue at that time.
In the verses of the Quran that came at the same time, the
age for marriage was mentioned and it was emphasized that children should be married when they come of
age . So, opposing a divine suggestion cannot be considered. Using the mentality of Umar, if intervention had been a matter of consideration here, the Prophet would surely have been warned in a
coming revelation and a step would have been taken to resolve the issue. At any rate, the
Prophet's wedding to Aisha took place in accordance with direction from divine will .
Now, if you like, putting the extremes behind us and
using moderate criteria,
let's examine sources related to Aisha's age at marriage once again.
1. While listing names of Muslims during the first days of Islam, Aisha's name,
together with her older sister Asma, are listed immediately after the names of the Sabiqun al-Awwalun (the first ones) like Uthman ibn Affan, Zubayr ibn Awwam, Abdurrahman ibn
Awf, Sa'd ibn Abi Waqqas, Talha ibn Ubaydullah, Abu Ubayda ibn Jarrah, Arqam ibn Abi al-Arqam and Uthman ibn
Maz'un. Being the 18th person to accept Islam, Aisha's name precedes the names of Umayr ibn Abi Waqqas, Abdullah ibn
Mas'ud, Salit ibn Amr, Ja'far ibn Abi Talib, Abdullah ibn Jahsh, Abu Hudayfa, Suhayb ibn Sinan, Ammar ibn Yasir, Umar ibn Khattab, Hamza ibn Abdilmuttalib, Habbab ibn Aratt, Said ibn Zayd and Fatima bint Khattab . This means she was
living then and was mature enough to make such a choice and exercise her will. In addition, the information in reports that
"she was a small girl then" shows that her name was mentioned in a conscious way .
This date refers to the early days of Islam. For it is known that Aisha's sister Asma, who was born in 595, was 15 when she became a Muslim . This indicates the year 610, when the Prophet started to receive the revelation and this then shows that Aisha was at least 5, 6 or 7 that day and that she was at least 17 or 18 when she married the Prophet in Medina.
2. In regard to days in Mecca, Aisha said, "I was a
girl playing games when the verse,
'Indeed, the Last Hour is their appointed time [for their complete recompense], and the Last Hour will be more
grievous and more
bitter'  was revealed to God's Messenger ." This information opens other doors for us
regarding her age.
The verse under consideration is the 46th verse of Surah Qamar, the 54th chapter of the Quran, which explains the miracle of the split moon [the
splitting of the moon is one of the miracles performed by the Prophet Muhammad]. Revealed as a whole, this surah came while the Prophet was in Ibn
Arqam's home in the fourth (614)  or eighth (618) or ninth (619)  year of his mission,
according to differing reports. Looking especially at necessity, some scholars focused on the date
being 614; when this date is taken, Aisha either had not been born or had just been born. While when this date is taken it appears that she must have been born at least
eight or nine years earlier, the situation does not change much when 618 or 619 are taken. In that situation she would have only been 4 or 5 years old, neither an
age at which she would be in a position to understand this event and relate it years later.
According to the second possibility, she was probably born when
Muhammad's prophethood had just begun .
Another matter worth mentioning here is that while
describing that day, Aisha stated,
"I was a girl playing games." The word she used to describe herself, jariya, is used to describe the
passage into puberty. Ibn Yara, an Arab poet, describes this passage as follows:
"When a girl becomes 8 years old, she is not a 'jariya.' She is a bridal candidate that I can marry to Utba or Muawiya.Ó" Some scholars say that it is used for
girls who are older than 11.
If we look at the issue taking 614 as the year that Surah Qamar was revealed, Aisha would have been born at least
eight years before the prophetic mission, or in 606. If we accept 618, then the year of birth would have been 610; this event alone makes it impossible for her to have been 9 when she married.
When this information is combined with her name
being on the list of the first Muslims, we get the result that
Aisha's date of birth was probably 606. Consequently, she would have been at least 17 when she married.
3. Of course, Aisha's memories of Mecca are not limited to this. In addition to this, the
following memories confirm this matter:
a) Her saying that she had seen two people
begging who had remained from the Year of the Elephant (the year in which Yemeni
King Abraha sent an army of elephants to Mecca in order to destroy the Kaaba; the elephants were pelted with pebbles dropped on them by birds), which occurred 40 years before the prophetic mission and is accepted as a milestone for
determining history, and her handing down this information with her sister Asma only .
b) Her describing in detail that during difficult times in Mecca,
God's Messenger had come to their house morning and evening and that her father, Abu Bakr, who could not endure this hardship, attempted to
migrate to Abyssinia .
c) Her stating that first it was mandatory to offer two cycles of
obligatory prayer and that later it was changed to four cycles for residents, but that
during military campaigns two cycles were performed .
d) In reports about the early days, there
being statements like, "We heard that Isaf and Naila had committed a crime at the Kaaba and for this reason
God turned them into stone as a man and woman from the Jurhum tribe
4. Being betrothed before the engagement: Another factor that supports the above view is that at the time when the
Prophet's marriage was a topic of discussion, Aisha was engaged to Mut'im ibn
Adiyy's son Jubayr. The suggestion for the Prophet to marry Aisha came from Hawla bint Hakim, the wife of Uthman ibn
Maz'un, someone not from the family. Both situations show that she had come to the
age of marriage and was known as a young marriageable girl.
As is known, this betrothal was broken by the Ibn Adiyy family due to the possible
religious conversion of their son to Islam, and it was only after this that
Aisha's engagement to Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, took place . Consequently, the
marriage agreement was either made before the prophetic mission or when the call to Islam was
being made openly (three years after the Prophet began receiving revelation). If it was made before the mission,
together with the idea that Aisha was 9 years old when she married being shaken from its foundation, it implies that Aisha was born even earlier than has been
thought. For this reason, some say that she was a 13- or 14-year-old girl then .
It should not be overlooked that this decision was made
during the period when the call to Islam had begun to be made openly. In regard to time, this means 613-614. If it is assumed that Aisha was born four years after the mission, it has to be accepted that she had not yet been born, so it is not possible to talk about a
marriage agreement under these circumstances. In this case, it has to be accepted that she was at least 7 or 8 when her
engagement was broken, so the year was probably 605 .
Here, another possibility can be mentioned; namely, an
agreement of arranged future marriage similar to
"cradle tallying," an agreement between parents in the early years after the birth of a baby. However, there are no details in the texts under consideration to confirm this.
Dr. Reşit Haylamaz is the editor-in-chief of Kaynak
1. Bukhari, Manaqib al-Ansar, 20, 44; Muslim, Nikah, 71; Fadail al-Sahaba, 74; Abu Dawud, Adab, 55; Ibn Maja, Nikah, 13; Nasai, Nikah, 78;
Darimi, Nikah, 56.
2. Azimli, Mehmet, "Hz. Aise'nin Evlilik Yası Tartışmalarında Savunmacı Tarihciligin
Cıkmazı," İslami Arastırmalar, Vol. 16, Issue 1, 2003.
3. See Dogrul, Omer Rıza, Asr-ı Saadet, Eser Kitabevi, Istanbul, 1974, 2/141; Nadwi, Sayyid Sulayman, Hazreti
Aişe, (trns. by Ahmet Karataş), Timaş Yayınları, İstanbul, p. 21, 2004; Savaş, Rıza,
"Hz. Aişe'nin Evlenme Yası Ile Igili Farklı Bir Yaklasım,Ó" D. E.
U. İlahiyat Fak. Derg. Issue 4, İzmir, 1995, pp. 139-144; YUce, AbdUlhakim,
Efendimiz'in Bir GUnU, Isık Yayınları, Istanbul, pp. 82-83, 2007.
4. Abdul Muttalib, the grandfather of the Prophet, married Hala bint Uhayb, who was
young then. Since he married off his son Abdullah to Amina at an early age at around the same time of his own
marriage with Hala, the Prophet was almost of the same age with his uncle Hamza.
5. In order to have family relationship with the Prophet and thus further his close relation with
God's Messenger, Umar ibn Khattab married Ali's daughter Umm Qulthum, and this
marriage was not found strange at that time at all.
6. Amr ibn As, for instance, was 12 years older than his son Abdullah. This means that he was around 10 when he
got married. For further information see Ibn al-Athir, Usud al-Gaba, 3/240.
7. Nisa: 4/6.
8. Bukhari, Ta'bir, 21, Manakib al-Ansar, 44, Nikah, 9; Muslim, Fadail al-Sahaba, 79; Ibn Hanbal, Musnad, 6/41, 128.
9. Ibn Hisham, Sira, 1/271; Ibn Ishaq, Sira, Konya, 1981, 124.
10. Ibn Hisham, Sira, 1/271; Ibn Hisham,
11. Nawawi, Tahzib al-Asma, 2/597; Hakim, Mustadrak, 3/635.
12. Qamar 54:46.
13. Bukhari, Fadail al-Qur'an, 6; Tafsir al-Sura, (54) 6; Ayni, Badruddin Abu Muhammad Mahmud ibn Ahmad, Umdat al-Qari Sharh Sahih al-Bukhari, Dar alIhya al-Turas al-Arabi, 20/21; Asqalani, Fath
14. Suyuti, Itqan, Beirut, 1987, 1/29, 50; Dogrul,
Asr-ı Saadet, 2/148.
15. The month difference stems from the lunar calendar.
16. Taking this information into account, some people calculate Aisha's
age at marriage as least 14 or 22, up to 28. We have not focused on these as they are not supported by the sources.
17. Ibn Hisham, Sira, 1/176; Haysami, Majma al-Zawaid, 3/285; Ibn Kathir, Tafsir, 4/553; Bidaya, 2/214; Qurtubi, Tafsir, 20/195.
18. Bukhari, Salat, 70, Kafala, 5, Manaqib al-Ansar, 45, Adab, 64; Ibn Hanbal, Musnad, 6/198.
19. Muslim, 3/463; Mu'jam al-Kabir, 2/285, 286; Mu'jam al-Awsat, 12/145; Ibn Hisham, Sira, 1/243.
20. Ibn Hisham, Sira, 1/83.
21. Bukhari, Nikah, 11; Ibn Hanbal, Musnad, 6/210; Haysami, Majma al-Zawaid, 9/225; Bayhaqi, Sunan, 7/129; Tabari, Tarih, 3/161-163.
22. Savaş, Rıza, D. E. U. İlahiyat
Fak. Dergisi, Issue 4, İzmir, pp. 139-144, 1995.
23. Berki, Ali Hikmet, Osman Eskioglu, HatemU'l-Enbiya Hz. Muhammed ve Hayatı, 210.